language control? (NSFW)

[littlefemmenist]

hi everybody

 

does anyone else have a kink about being forced/told to use certain language when they're in little/middlespace? or not even in a headspace, just in general.

 

for me, it can be sweet, like having to refer to my pacifier as a paci or binky (or whatever); it can also be really naughty, like having to call my private parts something a "little" might say or something really explicit.

 

this (NSFW) tumblr post explains it a little, too...

[Littlest_Bee]

It depends.

Certain things appeal to me but I'm fussy about the words I use. There are words that will pretty much instantly ruin my headspace - others are okay in some circumstances and icky in others - so I imagine it would be very difficult for any caregiver to come up with rules that feel right for both of us.