Seeking Advice

[Guest PrincessGore]

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Edited March 24, 2018 by PrincessGore

[Guest SUeB]

The obvious advice is to end the relationship. If there are so many worries and things wrong with it, why are you still in it? If you have to come to an online forum asking how to deal with a problem-filled and "unstable" relationship, i think you can figure out what you actually ought to do.

[Guest Loki]

Without knowing more

 

Run

 

Run like mad as far as possible when it’s safe to do so.

[CaresAlot]

I put in a friend request so we can chat.  Sometimes the things we see are as problems are really not that bad like: he puts the toilet paper on the wrong way.  Like the two answers above if its a show stopper - not respecting your boundaries be it physical or mental can be a show stopper.  In which its time to pack up the tent and call it a day.  People resist change when that is exactly what you need sometimes.  Was a hard lesson for me to learn.

[kittyboo]

I'm no stranger to unstable relationships and I know that sometimes leaving is easier said than done. You have to think about your own needs and happiness and know that you have the right to care about you more than you do your partner. Look after yourself first and feel free to message me.