tips for explaining what little space is to your s/o?

[softangel]

anyway tips for explaining what little space is to your s/o without sounding like a complete freak or turning them off ???

 

i’m still alone but i’m fearing for the moment i finally find someone.

 

how do i bring it up ?

 

when would be the best time ?

 

do i wait several months or does the wait make it worse?

 

do i make it a serious discussion or have a light hearted approach so i don’t scare them away ?

 

thank you so much !

 

sincerely ,

 

a frightened little ~<3

[Pure Heart Dom]

Hello! If I may offer any sort of ease to your frantic curiosity (joking of course),I'd say it'd be best to bring up your little space when you feel at your most comfortable with you s/o. I don't believe you should have a time frame as to how long until you do, but once you begin to feel REAL connectedness with said individual and can see yourself and are mentally and emotionally prepared for a long term investment/commitment. It should be a serious discussion I believe; as it is important to you and your self identity, it shouldn't be taken as a joke or gilded to look that way. If you "scare them away" just know that it wasn't you who did anything wrong or actually scared them away. They just weren't prepared to handle that responsibility, no one us to blame. Every little is different and special in their own way, so even if it's someone who is a caregiver, I think it's crucial to have this conversation. If they're gonna be insensitive and perhaps ridicule you for being little, then they suck and you are/will always be better off without them xD

I sure hope this helped ease your mind and gave you something to think about and consider! x3

[CallMeDaddyLG]

Your comment said, " still still alone and fearing". Don't worry the rite door will open. Behind it will be someone who loves you for the individual you are and will become. Not what they can get or take from you.  You may just find a dream daddy here in the ddlgForum community.  I viewed your profile. Lots of friends for support & love. You sound amazing. Everything except Rupauls drag race. But I would't hold that against you.  you may even talk me into watching. (NOT).

Of course if you were my LG. I would watch it with you. Just don't tell anyone. Oops! I let the kitten out of the bag.

 

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For it is life, the very life of life.
In its brief course
Lie all the verities and realities of your existance,
                the bliss of growth,
                  the glory of action,
         the splender of beauty,
For yesterday is but a dream
And tomorrow is only a vision,
But today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness
And every tomorrow a vision of hope.
Look well therefore, to this day!
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[neko]

You said you're still single, so why not just look for someone that already knows what ddlg/little space is?

[K-kitty96]

You said you're still single, so why not just look for someone that already knows what ddlg/little space is?

Because in this world that is easier said than done. I’ve been having the same thoughts as this person because I have looked for people already party of the community and instead of a lot of the sfw daddy’s I’ve been getting creepy pedophilic old men who want an nsfw relationship, people who claim to be caregivers but aren’t, and people who want to shame me for who I am.... not that these are the only type out there. It’s just hard to find good ones. This is the first sight I’ve found that I feel ok with being open about who I am.

Edited February 20, 2018 by K-kitty96