I'm curious

[Guest Stinkin'ol'Fred]

I'm not exactly sure how to word this. I don't want to sound like I'm forcing my guy into a role he's not comfortable with. With that being said, I've asked him to be my Daddy and he is 100% okay with being my Daddy. But its kinda stagnated, I was wondering, from other littles, is there anything subtle or any lil actions I can do that don't pressure him but kinda guide him into Daddy space. We've established spankings for fun and for punishment. Luckily I haven't needed punishment yet.

I called him Daddy and other cute names. But I want rules and I'd love for him to really embody his role as Daddy without making him feel like hes doin something wrong or feel like I'm not happy. He's the overall package as far as caregiver and loving.

[neko]

Subtlty will never work, ever. If you want certain things from him you need to be upfront about your feelings otherwise what you want will never happen

 

If there's something you'd like him to do you should be able to state your opinion without him getting upset about it.

Edited February 14, 2018 by neko

[Mikaitaku]

It is mostly instinct and personality, he either does it or does not.

[Guest Stinkin'ol'Fred]

Subtlty will never work, ever. If you want certain things from him you need to be upfront about your feelings otherwise what you want will never happen

If there's something you'd like him to do you should be able to state your opinion without him getting upset about it.

Is there any advice you can give me on how to softly broach the subject? I never want to sound demanding of him.

[Guest Stinkin'ol'Fred]

We're also both kinda new. Him more so than I. I figure over time, and communication we will both develope together.

[Guest SUeB]

He probably saw it as a cute rp thing, and it's kind of trailed off for him. If he's not into doing certain things naturally, it's not going to be easy (or even advisable) to try change how he does things. Sometimes people get so caught up with what they want, they ignore what they have. Is he good enough for you? Are you happy in this relationship? If the answer is yes, then maybe you need to compromise some things and accept you aren't going to be checking off every box on the list