new to everything!

[princessbottle]

okay. so im a male, a daddy, and im really new to all of this. ive been talking to this girl for a while now, and we finally started dating. im so happy. i met her over kik, and we met up! it went great, now i go and see her all the time. i always had a suspicion about her..all of her stuffies, the tv she watches, the way she talks, the way she acts. one time we were sitting together and she said hold me! so i picker her up, and sat her on my lap and looked at her. and she said am- am- am i you're baby? i said ofc! she said thank you daddy, and giggled and got so red. i was like woah. daddy? huh. thats kinda hot. and shes so adorable. so i went with it. well we finally talked about it, and its so much more than i thought it was! at first i was so overwhelmed with it. and i it was just like wow this is crazy. but then i became more dominate with her at times, and got used to it, and i actually really like it now! but the past has lead me to have severe trust issues. im so worried she has another daddy, or only wants me for sex. she has told me so many times, i belong to you, you own me. i love you for you, not only sex. shes wrote paragraphs. and i feel so guilty for not believing her! i just see that some littles are just into in for sex, which is fine! but i want both. i want an emotional relationship too. it seems she is always little when horny, or always horny when little. yeah thats the better way to word that. so what does that mean? im always shy around her, she always says stuff lie "how little am i right now? tell me dadddy" or "call me babydoll daddy!" and i respond with "whyyyyy i like ur name!" i always feel so bad. so last night, i did everything she wanted me to do, and more (over facetime) the look in her eyes oh my gosh. she was so happy. so i guess im just asking for tips. i want to make her happy. im so new to all of this, so its wild! when she feels little omg she is so little. i mean, sometimes there things i can say or do to make her instantly little. i think, is she faking it? i just want some opinions, and if this so far sounds like a healthy relationship. thanks! 

[Rebel]

Ok, first off, I would've proof read all that before you sent it, no offense.

 

Secondly, it sounds like you are off to a great start, but the uniform tips other CGs could give you would be useless at this point. Most of those uniform tips would be for just starting out, but it sounds like y'all have a decent handle on it. One tip would be sit down with her as an adult to another adult, and talk about what y'all want from a DDLG relationship. The next thing would be (if y'all want them) during that time of talking big to big, draft some rules that she'd have to follow, whether as just a little or in general.

 

As for the "faking it" part, you can tell if they are faking it. I can't speak for everyone, because everyone is different and the way everyone's little side is different, but I'll speak from what I see with my little. When my little goes into that space, it is very clear she regressed because she instantly takes on the child-like tendencies. And while its hard to describe, I can also tell because she also gains that child-like innocence and energy. We can't tell you how to know if she's faking it, but from what I could decipher, to me it sounds like she is genuine. 

 

I hope that helped. 

[princessbottle]

Ok, first off, I would've proof read all that before you sent it, no offense.

 

Secondly, it sounds like you are off to a great start, but the uniform tips other CGs could give you would be useless at this point. Most of those uniform tips would be for just starting out, but it sounds like y'all have a decent handle on it. One tip would be sit down with her as an adult to another adult, and talk about what y'all want from a DDLG relationship. The next thing would be (if y'all want them) during that time of talking big to big, draft some rules that she'd have to follow, whether as just a little or in general.

 

As for the "faking it" part, you can tell if they are faking it. I can't speak for everyone, because everyone is different and the way everyone's little side is different, but I'll speak from what I see with my little. When my little goes into that space, it is very clear she regressed because she instantly takes on the child-like tendencies. And while its hard to describe, I can also tell because she also gains that child-like innocence and energy. We can't tell you how to know if she's faking it, but from what I could decipher, to me it sounds like she is genuine. 

 

I hope that helped. 

Thanks so much man! Since I've sat her down, adult to adult and talked about what we both want from a DDLG relationship. I've also given her rules! I also started to notice, when she is so little she will pick up some of the "child-like tendencies" that you we're talking about. She always use's less words then too, and talks in a very high pitch voice. Once again, thanks so much!