Ghosted by my little

[WhiteRa]

Hey all, new poster to this fourm, although I've been reading done topics here and there for a good amount of time now.

 

This post is pretty much the title. I found my little princess through another chat app, and we hit it off immediately. She was the one who actually introduced this style to me, and I slowly grew to enjoy it quite a lot. however, we're very long distance with her all the way in Europe, and me in America. Anyways, we had been exclusive for a year and four months, and I was crazy about her.

 

But basically two weeks ago she said she was going to go offline for a while since she was running out of data, but would have it back in a few days... and I haven't heard from her since. So as you can imagine I'm pretty sad about it, as well as the fact that I've got practically no experience in this lifestyle, since we were not able to meet up to often and I wanted to explore and grow naturally with her when we were together.

 

So while the fact that it's over hurts, I trusted that she was the type who would at least give me a reason why wanted to leave, and that hurts all the more. If I'm being honest, I feel like this has now shaken my trust in littles in general, not that I even know how to even meet littles now. Thanks guys, I feel like this is the only place I can tell this story 100% truthfully and have people understand.

[Guest daddy_zach]

Sadly something quite similar has happened a couple of times to me.

Yes it hurts. And it hurts even more, not knowing why they have behaved in such a way.

 

Perhaps it's emotional immaturity or plain selfishness, that allows such littles to behave that way.

ddlg should be a mutually respectful dynamic I feel.

Unfortunately, sometimes, some people only think of themself.

 

I hope you heal; and should you try again, I hope things work out better for you both.

[Guest Kaiser]

No experience in this lifestyle.

 

Met on the internet.

 

Thousands of miles apart.

 

Depressed over being ghosted.

 

 

Ok......

[CaresAlot]

In any situation, you can look at what you lost or what you have gained.  To look at what you lost you have to keep looking back.  Or you can take what you gained from this relationship and look forward and go find another.  You have some experience and you know what you like.  Maybe this time its somebody that is closer.  Would your life have been better if you never met her.  Give yourself a little aftercare.

Life happens sometimes and its not always things you can control especially in cases where it is a LDR.  I've been here a short time and there are lots of different Little opportunities that come up.  You can find a Little friend, another LDR or sombody close that you can have that regular physical contact. This is certainly the place to look.

[daddy1992]

Hey man,

Sorry to hear that this happen. but sadly it happens to a lot of little's and us caregivers/daddy's/mummy's. I understand that LDR are so hard and my first little was like what you are going through. but i guess you just have to push forward and keeping trying. you will one day find that little who will stick by you and ect. There a lot of little joining on this forum daily. make some friends with them and with other daddys. this will keep you busy, give you hope and also keep you interested in the lifestyle. 

This is just my personal opinion. everyone advice is good. but good luck man. Always happy to chat more anyway