Fake littles

[Guest Josemartinez128]

Hey guys I been having trouble to spot out fake Little’s, like is there a way you guys figured out who’s real and who’s fake? I mean there was one girl who asked to be my daddy and I told her I want to get to know her first, and she never responded after that, but is there like a way to actually find out who’s real or not? Edited February 8, 2018 by Josemartinez128

[ILikeTheSummer]

don't like the term fake little's what so ever.... yeah maybe some people have a very different approach and i don't like it either but disqualifying them as fake is just wrong

 

a fake daddy/little might be a catfish but not someone who just has a different approach/lifestyle

[XmochiX]

Yeah, I agree with the above poster. You shouldn't label anyone as a fake little just because you got ghosted. Some people might even consider me fake because I'd rather play with action figures and go to the comic book store instead of the Disney store or out to get my nails done. Doesn't mean I am, though. I'm just more rough and tumble than most.

[Guest Josemartinez128]

Okay that was my fault, but what is the correct term? I take full responsibility I shouldn’t have use the term fake, but like is there a way to spot them or is it like a blind bag really

[ILikeTheSummer]

rejection is a part of live and i still don't understand why ghosting is so evil? would people really prefer if someone told them "hey i don't want to talk to you anymore because you're boring"? everyone gets ghosted at some point most people have ghosted someone...

there's no way of spotting who will or does that.... if there's a connection there's a connection if not it'll eventually die down

[Guest Josemartinez128]

Yeah I guess you are right, but sometimes I deserve the truth you know, without the truth I don’t know how to fix it, that’s why I always want to know what I did wrong to fix it for I won’t have trouble with the next little, to me it won’t hurt, it’s more like “better luck next time, here’s what happen”

[ILikeTheSummer]

but there's not always a obvious reason... sometimes i just don't feel like talking to someone... or someone said something that upset me... not saying that's what happens but i don't think i owe someone i don't really know a long explanation as to why i don't like them...

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Edited September 10, 2018 by mung bean

[neko]

There's no way of telling if someone will ghost you or if you two will be compatible enough to be in a relationship. Just kinda have to feel people out.

[LittlePupRune]

"Fake" isn't really the best term to use. Also a thing to remember, in CGl people are still people. Being involved does not somehow magically make everyone a better person. Sometimes you'll have people that respond well and can carry on a conversation, other times you'll find people that are flaky really easily or just don't want to put the effort in. It takes a lot of trial-and-error and experience and I wouldn't say that there is an easy way to tell.

[Guest SUeB]

If someone tells you a load of lies to get your attention temporarily, yes, they are fake. If a guy tells you he is a daddy simply to get a few thrills, or someone calls themselves a little, or a Dom, or a sub etc etc etc, when they really aren't and are using the word cos they know it draws certain types in, then yes they are a fake.

It happens. A lot. Just try be more patient, and accept that this is a huge part of the online thing.