I've lost my little girl

[Guest MusicianDaddy]

For a series of unfortunate incidents, and due to life's bizarre twists and turns, and in responses to all kinds of acute chaos, I have lost my little girl.  I feel like I've lost a part of myself as her confident, nurturing, loving, and praising Daddy, and a part of her as my curious, ferocious, beautiful, and protected little Kitten. Or as I experienced this to be....She is angry and moving on in a matter of days. I don't blame her. I am 23 years older and she has an entire lifetime of chapters ahead.  And I'm confused and heart-broken.  She may read this post or she may not. I'm a very strong stubborn person who will figure it out again; but I'm just expressing pain to people in this community tonight. Thanks

[Guest Littlenala]

Sorry to hear that musician. Hopefully things can be worked out.

[CaresAlot]

I've suffered loss before and yes its painful because all we can focus on is the lose.  What helped make it less painful was focusing on what I gained.  All the really good moments that everything seemed right.  All the things that I learned from that experience has certainly made me much better in so many ways.  It has made me care a little more for those good moments and not take them for granted.  Take some time and think about what you've learned. Then think you can use that knowledge to be better in your next relationship.  Those who don't study history are doomed to repeat it.  

Edited February 8, 2018 by CaresAlot

[Guest SUeB]

Nothing wrong with venting. Hopefully that's what this is, just a way to express your grief, and not a way to get to your ex if she is on here too.

Just accept that things don't always go our way, and try to move on. Age differences don't have anything to do with relationship longevity. My Daddy/Master and i are 23 years apart. But we were made for each other. You simply weren't meant for one another long term. If it's an age difference you are interested in, don't let this put you off. But just make sure that the maturity level matches, and the relationship goals too, etc.

[Guest MusicianDaddy]

Thanks all. No no, my post was merely an emotional vent in the moment.  "Getting to my ex" is not even remotely in my thinking, or part of my emotional core.  I hurt her and was not there for her, and I know she has experienced how deeply I care. I know she will also thrive in the future, and I will take this time for a welcome internal self-focus for a bit.  Appreciate people sharing some good energy 

[Guest SugarNSpiceSam]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on everything. That's good that your not posting this up to get to your ex. I hope eventually your pain passes and they'll be a new chapter in your life soon. Believe it's good that you admitted things that you have done wrong, however that doesn't make you a bad person at all. I think it's good that you still care about her well being and want her to be happy. That shows some strength. I wish you nothing but the best. 

[xxdarlingdevilxx]

For a series of unfortunate incidents, and due to life's bizarre twists and turns, and in responses to all kinds of acute chaos, I have lost my little girl. I feel like I've lost a part of myself as her confident, nurturing, loving, and praising Daddy, and a part of her as my curious, ferocious, beautiful, and protected little Kitten. Or as I experienced this to be....She is angry and moving on in a matter of days. I don't blame her. I am 23 years older and she has an entire lifetime of chapters ahead. And I'm confused and heart-broken. She may read this post or she may not. I'm a very strong stubborn person who will figure it out again; but I'm just expressing pain to people in this community tonight. Thanks

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