New to this, where to start?

[beenherebeforeuk]

Ok, so at 31 im shocked im writing this, until 29 i was married, "normal" vanilla life, i then got divorced and met my ex, how it came about I have no idea but gradually we discovered she enjoyed being a little, strangely i realised i loved being a D, I don't struggle with women and i'm told im very good looking, i've been fortunate that my business has flourished thus financially stable and enjoy nice things, but since we split, i've been confused as to how i meet other littles, it isn't something that comes up in everyday conversation and I find myself yearning for that bond again. I almost feel as though i wont be truly happy until i meet my soul mate little, what worries me is that it being a taboo subject, i may never actually do so. I'm in the UK, if anyone more experienced in this scene has any pointers id appreciate it.

Edited February 7, 2018 by beenherebeforeuk

[Guest Arc]

Fetlife would be a great place to start. Attend local events and munches - they're a great place to meet people who are into the kink scene, so it won't be such a taboo subject to bring up. Posting on local personals pages would be a good idea too, and depending on where you are there might even be a dllg group on there.  

[Guest SUeB]

Yep, fetlife. Tried the vanilla dating scene again and again, but eventually realised the only chance i had of finding the right one for me was to stay there. MANY fakes and morons on there of course, but to be fair, no more than on the vanilla sites. Got sick of trying to explain myself and my relationship needs etc. Got sick of the totally ignorant dudes who heard "submissive" and thought i was talking about the 50 shades bull****. Those that thought it meant i was an easy lay and that i would just do what they wanted. Erm.....no. Think again dude. And that was before i even thought of daring to bring up my lg side. Oh dear lord no, lol.