not sure if i'm a little... advice needed :(

[milkeelu]

so awhile ago I was here looking for some advice as I was new in the community I got lots of great advices and made a few friends! since then i've done research here and on other sites and met more wonderful littles. 

 

unfortunately, the more I thought about it the more uncertain I was that a little is what I am. I had difficulty talking to other littles because I didn't share their interests (disney, paci's, sippy cups, onesies, etc) and I also found baby talk (in text) a little hard to read and almost impossible to write in for myself. 

 

I also have a significant other who I find very important to me and I didn't want to drag him into the adventure (and I guess into being a daddy) when I was so uncertain myself. 

 

maybe I would've had an easier time if I did, I'm not sure~ 

 

but ever since I began the journey, i've yet to experience little space or felt little in any sort of way. 

 

i'm still interested in the dynamic and lifestyle, but now i'm questioning if it's something that I can accomplish naturally.

 

i'd love to hear any thoughts or advice on the topic! 

 

thank you all so much for reading <3 

[Guest Dulci]

Well. What is it about the lifestyle you love or are intrigued by? As I'm sure you'll find your answer there. Then going into little space won't be so difficult.

 

I'm a little too! I don't like pacis, bottles, nappies or babytalk. So I understand what you mean by being unable to talk to other littles. So you can still be a little and not like those things.

 

When I first started; I also found little space hard. It was as thoughmy brain was mentally blocking me. However. In time it got easier and I slip into it most weekends with ease.

 

In regard to your partner. Once you've figured out what you do like you could approach the topic. See what they think. Communication is always key.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

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[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

If it isn't acting like a little you were interested in, or what initially piqued your interest. Maybe it was more of a D/s role? If so perfectly okay!

[Mikaitaku]

There are different ages for littles, some are babies, some are toddlers, some are like 5-8 others are older or in the teens. It is up to you to figure out where you fit

[Guest lala1972]

im new to this too and had the same thought actually!!!!!!! i dont like paci's ,onesies and disney that much im more into anime , and games 0,0 i like plushies/little girls clothes so thats like more traditonally "little" and i also am childish naturally .. so i am a little. and you can be too. just know that everyone is diff and you can still like very non little things and stil get into it .. you can even be a little or middle ... OR you can be interested in the power dynamic of it ..dont worry about it too much just do whats natural to YOU. ^^