Guest ₦intendo ¢artridge Posted January 27, 2018 Report Posted January 27, 2018 Okay so, I am a daddy (I am new to this)... and I suffer from depression. I am on anti-depressants but when I feel down I get angry. My little adds stress and makes me angry. I do not want to punish her out of anger because I feel like it is not the best. I just don't know what to do about it. I feel lost, confused, stressed, and just over all done. I need help on how to over come this.... I hope I posted to the right thing... 1
Bunniegural Posted January 27, 2018 Report Posted January 27, 2018 my Uram has depression too. sometimes He can be a grumpy butt and He says you should never punish someone out of anger (though i know He has said some things he regrets in the past when we have faught) if you are going to be a daddy, you’ve got to be in control- of yourself first and foremost. that means taking care of yourself when you need it. maybe you need time apart sometimes, maybe you need to do research on expressing your emotions in a healthy way. if you are a daddy, you have to be the grown up in the situation, and that takes a lot of self mastery. if you can find a kink friendly therapist that may be a good place to start, or network with other Doms (through munches and such). also, communicate with your little when she is pushing you too hard. She needs to know that even though you are her daddy you are still a human being with your own emotional needs.
Guest ₦intendo ¢artridge Posted January 27, 2018 Report Posted January 27, 2018 my Uram has depression too. sometimes He can be a grumpy butt and He says you should never punish someone out of anger (though i know He has said some things he regrets in the past when we have faught) if you are going to be a daddy, you’ve got to be in control- of yourself first and foremost. that means taking care of yourself when you need it. maybe you need time apart sometimes, maybe you need to do research on expressing your emotions in a healthy way. if you are a daddy, you have to be the grown up in the situation, and that takes a lot of self mastery. if you can find a kink friendly therapist that may be a good place to start, or network with other Doms (through munches and such). also, communicate with your little when she is pushing you too hard. She needs to know that even though you are her daddy you are still a human being with your own emotional needs. I do love myself and stuff but some days it's just so hard to deal. I mean, I am a switch and I have a mommy but idk... I just get upset and usually push my feelings away because I do not want to hurt her. She has it bad enough. I don't want to add on any stressors and make her feel bad and want to die.
Mikaitaku Posted January 28, 2018 Report Posted January 28, 2018 I think so people are more emotion based than others which makes handling emotions challenging. Understanding where the root of any given moment of emotion can probably help you deal with it. Seeing a professional is probably the best way of overcoming whatever you need to overcome
Guest ~*~Sachita~*~ Posted January 28, 2018 Report Posted January 28, 2018 Officially, the Community Rules and Guidelines state: If a member needs advice concerning mental or physical health issues, encourage the member to seek professional care. Refrain from giving explicit medical/psychiatric advice(5). For the record, "I need help on how to overcome this" counts as asking for advice, which members cannot give you without breaking the rule. Considering the above, this topic is being locked. That being said, maybe this will help: Daddys with Mental Illness https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/201-help-for-daddy/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2853-daddies-with-depression/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/15756-daddy-and-depression/
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