New to this world due to a tinder profile - help

[ctaku]

Hello,

 

I am currently single and obviously looking for a girlfriend and I saw this girl who sounds as super sweet and although I read her profile, I didn't notice when she mentioned DDLG, neither I knew it was a thing until today. I got a notification that she liked me too yesterday, but due to work, it was today that I responded to her. Obviously I googled what it meant and to be honest I am both intrigued and really interested on starting a relationship like this. I mean, it really sounds sweet to have someone who I can spoil and be genuinely sweet. I mean, I already like many of the activities littles do (especially watching cartoons), so I am certainly not the person who would judge her. Quite the opposite, I want to be the person who supports her and makes each day brighter to someone.

 

Well,she hasn't respond to me yet. I told her I love some art she posted on her profile and that I though we were looking for the same things (she mentioned not being judge and at ease, which I think is what everyone should feel in any kind of relation). I have read that many littles can be pretty shy and that it takes time to them to gain thrust. I obviously would love to meet her and get to know her, but I don't want to be pushy or drive her way.

 

When do you think it would be appropriate to write to her back and what to say? I was thinking about asking her out, or simply tell her that I researched DDlg and I love it. What are your thoughts.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

You pretty much approach it like any normal relationship in the beginning.

 

It's like if someone said "I like it in the butt", that doesn't mean they want you to bum rush them.

It's just their way of saying "in future I would like you to bum rush me, if we get to the appropriate place in our relationship."

 

My understanding anyways.

[neko.babydoll]

^ I agree. Just talk to her as a normal thing at first. If she has DDlg on her profile she must be very open about it, so you may be able to ask about it sooner than you would someone else. Just speak with her normally and see how things go. You may find yourself joining her in the lifestyle without even trying.

[ctaku]

Thank you for your advice, I wrote back to her today and she didn't answer. I mean, even if I couldn't meet her, at least I am grateful for her for in a way introducing me to ddlg.