Help on dealing with Daddy saying no

[PulchritudinousSuccubus]

 Hey Guys, I just joined!   

 

Can you guys help me with dealing with my Daddy saying no?

 

My Daddy lately wants his own time away from me and it bothers me a lot.

 

We recently had a bad fight and I'm trying to accept the fact he wants his alone time

 

because we spend like literally everyday with each other.

 

But -sigh- I can't control my irritation with it and Anxiety I get..

 

Anyone got advice?   

[Foxcatcher]

When a guy says he wants his own time, take it seriously. We mean it. Feeling crowded or pushed has an equal and opposite reaction.

If he still wants to be with you, he will.

If not, there are plenty of daddies in the personal listing.

[Guest Arc]

I'm sorry but it shouldn't bother you. If he needs it then you need to find a way to deal with it. Fighting over that is pretty selfish....

 

Maybe start small. When he needs space see if there's something you can do for him so it still feels like you're serving him. Maybe draw him a picture or write a story.

[Guest SUeB]

The more you try change his mind, the more you will force him away. Anybody telling their partner that they want time alone isn't exactly a positive thing. For whatever reason, he's trying to pull away from you. No idea if it's temporary or he actually wants to get away permanently. But back off.

[Guest infinitecases]

As much as he wants him time alone, I'm sure you do too. Once you look past the need to be with your Daddy all the time, you'll realise that there are certain things you can only do when he isn't around. For instance, I can't concentrate enough to draw, work or read if my Daddy is there... if he's there all I'll want to do is cuddle him unless we're both doing our own things at the same time. Time alone can let you be more productive and let you do the things you otherwise would have lost touch with. 

 

Take this as an opportunity to do that- it might not be nice not spending time with your Daddy but he's explicitly told you he needs to be alone which is far better than just ignoring you outright and not telling you. You have ample warning your Daddy won't be around so instead of focussing on being upset and fighting over it, let him have his time and space and then focus on yours. Everyone needs some breathing space once in a while.

[MadelynVictoria]

I understand how him wanting alone time is affecting you, but honestly, we all need some alone time. You getting irritated about it, and fighting over it will probably upset him more, and make him want more time away. For now, I'd say give your daddy some time to relax, and recharge. If it turns into a constant thing where he wants to be away, then worry about it.