Guest asidfhiudsghfah Posted January 26, 2018 Report Posted January 26, 2018 I made a post in this forum not too long ago stating I might be a new daddy soon. A lot of people answered saying I should communicate with my girlfriend to decide whether we want to or not. She thought about it for a while (still is) and she told me she wanted me to do some research on how to go into being a daddy for the first time because she likes the idea of a ddlg relationship. So if anybody has tips on how to go about becoming a daddy for the very first time, please share. I'd really like to go into this with as much knowledge as I possibly can for rules on how to treat her, how to comfortably make the transition from the typical relationship to ddlg, how to make sure I'm not doing anything wrong as I try to be her daddy etc... On a side note, I'd love any tips I can possibly get on how to make the transition as comfortable as I possibly can for her as well. The only thing keeping her on the edge of not wanting to have a ddlg relationship is the fact that she thinks it's kind of weird, but more importantly she hinted about ddlg stuff to her friend without letting her know she was kind of into it and her friend made horrible accusations of it being weird and a "disgusting kink". Her friend even went as far as to tell her to "dump my ass" if I ever call her a little girl. These comments really got to her and are sort of pushing her away from the idea so I'd love to know any way I can help her be comfortable with who she wants to be (because she did tell me she felt she was already a little, but she's anxious to fully admit and commit to it) and to make the transition smooth and safe for her. Thank you so much.
neko Posted January 26, 2018 Report Posted January 26, 2018 (edited) There's a post right at the top of Caregiver Cafe called "advice for new daddies" or something along those lines. I'm sure it has some good info. As for how to treat her and how to make sure you're not doing anything wrong, talk to her. If she is unwilling to communicate her needs and wants from that type of relationship maybe she's not ready for it. Edited January 26, 2018 by neko
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