Awkward and Embarrassed

[Guest sunnybaby]

Story time!

So i found out around last October that my best friend IRL was also a little, and of course I was stoked to find out! A couple days later after talking about little space non-stop she asked me if I wanted to create a little Instagram together with fake names because we both live with family and didn’t want them to know. Discussing kink with family is just usually...awkward.

Fast forward to yesterday day and our page is still small but we’ve made a lot of friends and are having a friggin blast with it, and I see that my step-mom’s Instagram account viewed our Instagram story. LET ME TELL YOU I HAVE NEVER CLICKED BLOCK FASTER IN MY LIFE. I thought it may have been a glitch or something so i forget and move on and then today something else happens.

This woman, who had blocked my main insta, unblocked it, followed me, and posted a photo of our dog with the caption #(the name of our kink account)

I have never been more mortified in my life!
Like what on earth do I do?!
How do I respond???
She obviously meant for me i see it!

And when I say awkward and embarrassed it’s because my “parents”, more like bullies tbh, found out about my kink. Not that I’m embarrassed about being little. I’m actually really happy to be a little it’s just weird that now my dad may know that I call my boyfriend daddy and like to use binkies in my free time. That’s just....uncomfortable. Ugh!

Has this ever happened to any of ya’ll??? I’d love to exchange awkward stories and what not because honestly it would make me feel a TON better about this situation.

 

*UPDATE*

 

She told the whole family...i wanna die.

Edited January 26, 2018 by sunnybaby

[meows kohai]

Yo wtf. 

That feels hella hostile/vindictive... 

I'm too paranoid to put my real name and stuff online, so it's pretty easy to keep my family/people i know irl outside of work away from my stripper insta.

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Sounds like they have a tracker on your phone or you left it unlocked. I would personally be more concerned with the how she found it.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Sounds like they have a tracker on your phone or you left it unlocked. I would personally be more concerned with the how she found it.

 

Places like FB, Twitter, Instagram etc. track who your accounts interact with, who your email address contacts are and if you've hit 'allow' they can see who your phone contacts are. They then make suggestions when you sign up to either you or the people they think you'll interact with.

So chances are, when she made the new account with her friend, instagram was like "hey sunnyb's stepmother, maybe you'd like to follow this account?" so she checked it out.

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And my word that is so incredibly awkward, I'm so sorry. xD

Some point everyone finds out awkward things about family or friends, or things we don't like or agree with.

'S just the ways of the world. You'll get through it after a while

Hope she doesn't continue to be a B. And if she tries to use it against you, don't let her. ^.^

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Second thought... You might have used some method that could have been tracked when you created that account or had it linked to something else.

 

Hope you learned your lesson that social media is not a good thing. Remember that future employers do a social media screening as well, however they have advanced programs to crawl the web.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Second thought... You might have used some method that could have been tracked when you created that account or had it linked to something else.

 

Hope you learned your lesson that social media is not a good thing. Remember that future employers do a social media screening as well, however they have advanced programs to crawl the web.

 

I think it's mega lame that employers do social media searches.

That's like going through my panty draw to decide if they wanna hire me, to me lol

 

"I'm seeing a lot of lace and florals. I'm afraid you're just not what we're looking for here at Morgues'R'Us"

[Guest sunnybaby]

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Yo wtf. 

That feels hella hostile/vindictive... 

I'm too paranoid to put my real name and stuff online, so it's pretty easy to keep my family/people i know irl outside of work away from my stripper insta.

 

 

Sounds like they have a tracker on your phone or you left it unlocked. I would personally be more concerned with the how she found it.

 

 

Places like FB, Twitter, Instagram etc. track who your accounts interact with, who your email address contacts are and if you've hit 'allow' they can see who your phone contacts are. They then make suggestions when you sign up to either you or the people they think you'll interact with.

So chances are, when she made the new account with her friend, instagram was like "hey sunnyb's stepmother, maybe you'd like to follow this account?" so she checked it out.

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And my word that is so incredibly awkward, I'm so sorry. xD

Some point everyone finds out awkward things about family or friends, or things we don't like or agree with.

'S just the ways of the world. You'll get through it after a while

Hope she doesn't continue to be a B. And if she tries to use it against you, don't let her. ^.^

 

I didn't put any personal information whatsoever. Apparently she found it because she was stalking my friend's main, and my friend followed the account, and she assumed I was the other owner because we're so close. (yes i confronted her...it didn't go too well)

 

And honestly I feel I should be able to post whatever I want. I know people will find it, people have before, but those people didnt terrorise me for years and then make a post about it. ya'know???

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Yerp. I concur, you should have the freedom to post the things you enjoy or otherwise make you happy.

It sucks to have to worry about it because of her. Sorry to hear that the confrontation went badly.

[KaliGuurl]

Facebook owns Instagram so they will link your accounts even if you don't want them to. You can try to change your privacy settings but I know a few people who that didn't help either.

 

I firmly believe you shouldn't put things online if you don't want anyone finding out.

 

I'm a nude model and I've had friends and family find my work. It's something you have to take into consideration when you decide to be public about this stuff.

 

Once you put stuff like that out, it doesn't belong to you anymore. Usually whatever website you post on now owns that imagine and can do what they want with it.

 

I can't tell you how many times I've had photos and videos used by whatever site I posted them on as free promotion and because I signed the TOS, they have premission to do so.

 

Seriously read the fine print to stuff. Instagram has changed a lot since Facebook bought it.

 

There's really nothing you can do now. You already put it all out there. Now you're just gonna have to live with the consequences.

[DollDirector]

Unfortunately KaliGuurl is right: " you should not put things online if you don't want anyone finding out ".

 

But you may be entitled to feel that this person has been bullying for long enough. There may be solutions,perhaps your daddy might help with this one,wether it is the case or not you will see what I mean: Aren't there a few embarrassing things you know about her ?

Another more adult solution would be to do some cool research and match at least one of her acts with at least one law,on privacy or something,which she is breaching,and firmly inform her of this ...