can i please have some insight from other Daddies?

[lilbunnybaby]

hi, my Daddy is really amazing and i worship him very much and unconditionally. i really dont like feeling like there is something wrong with me or he doesnt like the little parts of me. i know it is irrational, but i don’t think i feel like i can fully be my little self with him. because he doesn’t like some things that make me feel little. it makes him uncomfortable, like pacifiers. and diapers but that is not a big deal to me. those things dont matter. its frivolous things. He takes care of me and gives me rules and makes me very happy. but sometimes i get irrationally sad and self conscious that i am little and he won’t like how i act when i am feeling very little. is there any advice or insight that I can maybe get from other Daddies who are maybe like him too?

and yes, we have talked about it before multiple times. before anyone suggests i talk to him about it. and i am not planning on never discussing it with him either. so please dont say “talk to him about it” because that is not very helpful to what i am asking for. thank you.

I hope it’s okay to post this here.

[Guest Mister Grey]

Everyone is different, Everyone has their kink, everyone has their limit.  Not all Caregivers are the same, just like not all littles are the same.

 

He has a limit that just does not extend as far as yours.  Maybe that will change in time, maybe it will never change but that change has to come from him.

 

The fact is that you cannot get him to go to where you want him to go.  You can hope he can find his own way there or you will simply have to accept him as he is.  You guys are compatible, but only to a certain point it seems.

 

You dont want to hear this, but the fact is that IMO communication is the the fundamental base of any relationship and even more so when your involved in a kink based relationship.  It’s good that you have gone that route and if this is something that continues to stay on your mind, then you need to continue to talk.

 

 

Good luck.