Having problems with my mommy/little

[smolbunnyboy]

So, me and my mommy/little are having some troubles. She significant other originally asked me to be her dom and I agreed, having never been in a DDLG relationship before. Over time, I quickly learned I don't like being a daddy, I actually prefer being a little. We tried me being the little and her being the dom, but she wasn't able to handle it. Now, I've been forcing myself to simultaneously be her daddy while taking care of myself while I'm in little space. It has caused me a lot of stress and slight emotional pain and I'm looking for tips or advice for this. Thank you!

[Guest SUeB]

Sorry but you are simply not suited to one another. Incompatible. My advice is to accept you're never going to be happy together and you both need to be true to yourselves and find a better match.

[Déphysios]

You can also look for a dad who agrees to handle both of you. But it becomes complicated.

[Princess_Ariel]

You don't need do that if this hurts u! Yourselfe and your mind health are the most important in every relationship that you can have. If this hurts you, you need broken this relationship, even though it hurts, you need do this, and u know that. Both of u need a partner who make you and she happy.

[Guest Murhan]

So, me and my mommy/little are having some troubles. She significant other originally asked me to be her dom and I agreed, having never been in a DDLG relationship before. Over time, I quickly learned I don't like being a daddy, I actually prefer being a little. We tried me being the little and her being the dom, but she wasn't able to handle it. Now, I've been forcing myself to simultaneously be her daddy while taking care of myself while I'm in little space. It has caused me a lot of stress and slight emotional pain and I'm looking for tips or advice for this. Thank you!

You may be able to make it work

Things can improve over time

Just talk it over more and Figure it out

 

You shouldn't force yourself to do something though that is causing you stress and To just be unhappy after all

I can understand though

Me being a Switch

It's hard to find a balance sometimes

Sometimes trying to be dominant just makes me really stressed out

Other times not so much

 

Just do what you feel is best when it comes down to it though

I don't think you should just give up on you being in a relationship completely because you may find a way to make it work

[xBabydollx]

I think the problem here is that u don't like being a Daddy at all. She doesn't like being a Mommy. Y'all are trying to appease each other but both of y'all are 0% not happy when u do. It'll be different if u both acualy liked to switch occasionally, but clearly it stress both of y'all out and it isn't for y'all. u are a little and she is a little. It just doesn't mix. Y'all aren't compatible so the beat thing y'all can both do is walk away so y'all can both find a Daddy/Mommy to make u both 100% happy

[Guest SUeB]

You can also look for a dad who agrees to handle both of you. But it becomes complicated.

So throw someone else into this painful mess? Not great advice in my opinion.

[Guest Arc]

I know it's not what you want to hear, but this can't be fixed and it is not healthy. If you're not a Daddy then you can make yourself one. If she's not a Mommy then she can't make herself one either. You shouldn't force yourself to be in a position where you are not happy and not not handling it well. I think you need to realise that this can't continue like this. Relationships are about compromise and working together. She can't expect you to be her Daddy if you are struggling, and you can't expect the same of her either. It just doesn't work. 

 

I also don't agree that someone outside the relationship should be considered, unless you can really sort things out to work well for every person involved. 

[Déphysios]

So throw someone else into this painful mess? Not great advice in my opinion.

 

So it will be better to say STOP ! 

[Guest SUeB]

So it will be better to say STOP !

Exactly