virgin little?

[elsie]

so i'm a virgin with exactly no sexual experience - never even had a boyfriend before. i've always loved the look of DDlg, and i'm interested in reaching out to some of the daddies here, but i'm not sure if i should experience a vanilla relationship first? i'm worried that a DDlg relationship would be too much for me, and i might disappoint my daddy by not being ready for it 

 

so, should i pursue a vanilla relationship instead of a DDlg one?

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Pursue whatever you want. 

[RobbieBobbie]

I'm a daddy and i have no sexual experience, it's ok you just need someone to support you if they have already had some experience, or if they haven't you can both learn and practice together because then who's gonna tell you you're doing it wrong you know

[Panda God]

Maybe have a platonic ddlg relationship first? That way, you can see if you really like the lifestyle without having to worry about disappointing anyone.

[Angel24]

From my experience with this kinda thing (and I have a lot of it haha) there's a lot of daddies out there who prefer unexperienced virgin littles because it means they can teach you stuff:D You're sure to find someone who's perfect for you, don't worry:p

[Guest Mister Grey]

I dont necessarily think you need to pursue a vanilla relationship just to lose your virginity and train in sexual matters.  If your already craving a DDlg relationship then a vanilla relationship may be doomed from the start and that is not fair to that person or to yourself.

 

Your best approach is simply to take your time and meet someone who is caring and understanding and simply be honest about your situation.

 

It’s possible a Daddy would be more sensitive to helping you through that situation, as he would not want to hurt his little and that shared experience could bring you even closer together.

 

Ultimately just take your time and find someone good for you and communicate with them.  The rest will take care of itself.

 

 

Good luck.

[unicornbaby]

im a virgin little 2

[starkitten]

same thing with me, i've had a boyfriend before but all we ever did was hug, lol. i really want to get into a relationship naturally but i'm so afraid that they won't be okay with how i am, and then when i think about talking to people already involved in this, i worry they'll be disappointed because i'm so inexperienced. 

 

i'm in the same predicament but foresight is 20/20, i say don't worry too much about it. you seem really sweet and someone who's dating you will support you at any pace <3 good people will be good to you ^^ if you need to talk i'm here for you

[Mikaitaku]

I am also a virgin, go for whatever relationship you wish, remember DDlg does not have to be sexual in nature.

[Guest Arc]

My first relationship was with a Dominant and I was his sub. It was the first time I did anything sexual with anyone. I've never been with a vanilla and don't really plan to either. I tend to scare them off when I describe the BDSM things I'm into. :/

 

If you want a vanilla relationship first, go for it. If you want a ddlg one, go for that. It's your choice and there's no right or wrong. Just do what you're comfortable with