struggles for a lonesome mommy

[Guest nymphetamines]

How do you prevent feeling discouraged as a mommy when the community is so heavily based around the concept of daddy doms? Ive been in the community for years and have pretty much always struggled with finding a little girl whos specifically looking for a female domme. Any tips or tricks to remain hopeful and not push away this part of myself?

[A Cuddly Dom]

 Mommy Dommes are in incredibly short supply in our community. Don't lose hope just yet, because I know there are a lot of littles out there looking for a Mommy. You specified that you are interested in a female sub. They are out there, I assure you. There are also an astronomical number of MtF littles out there as well. Make a personal ad in our Personals section and just give it time. Bump your thread every so often, and make sure you specify in detail what kind of partnership you are looking for. A very detailed profile helps a ton as well, so littles can see who you are as an individual, what your interests are, and what your kind of caregiving/dominance looks like.

 

 Best wishes! ,

-ACD

[Guest jbb273g]

I'm sure youll find someone tons of ppl are out there looking for a mommy.  What makes you want a baby girl only?  there are so many baby boys who you might also like taking care of

[Guest nymphetamines]

I'm sure youll find someone tons of ppl are out there looking for a mommy.  What makes you want a baby girl only?  there are so many baby boys who you might also like taking care of

im gay? lol

[Guest nymphetamines]

 Mommy Dommes are in incredibly short supply in our community. Don't lose hope just yet, because I know there are a lot of littles out there looking for a Mommy. You specified that you are interested in a female sub. They are out there, I assure you. There are also an astronomical number of MtF littles out there as well. Make a personal ad in our Personals section and just give it time. Bump your thread every so often, and make sure you specify in detail what kind of partnership you are looking for. A very detailed profile helps a ton as well, so littles can see who you are as an individual, what your interests are, and what your kind of caregiving/dominance looks like.

 

 Best wishes! ,

-ACD

thank you for the support, i really appreciate it. 

[Guest nymphetamines]

Just keep lookin' around and chatting to ladies.

You're basically a unicorn (well, cept for the whole 'virgins only' thing *facepalm*)

I'm sure you will find someone. ^-^ Mommies are magical.

its a hard knock life for a unicorn! But thank you for the support <3

[Guest jbb273g]

im gay? lol

 

oh ok,  so are you only looking for a sexual relationship? would it be fun for you to still act like a mommy or babysit platonically for a boy while you looked for your baby girl?

[Panda God]

oh ok, so are you only looking for a sexual relationship? would it be fun for you to still act like a mommy or babysit platonically for a boy while you looked for your baby girl?

I have no idea how it is for the OP, but I must say that for me, it is extremely uncomfortable to try and dom a guy, even platonically. And I'm not even a lesbian. I can't exactly explain why... I know little boys need love, too; I'm just not the person to give it to them. And it seems like the OP isn't, either. So, yeah. Try not to push others to do things they're not comfortable with.

Edited January 22, 2018 by Panda God

[Guest nymphetamines]

I have no idea how it is for the OP, but I must say that for me, it is extremely uncomfortable to try and dom a guy, even platonically. And I'm not even a lesbian. I can't exactly explain why... I know little boys need love, too; I'm just not the person to give it to them. And it seems like the OP isn't, either. So, yeah. Try not to push others to do things they're not comfortable with.

I have no idea how it is for the OP, but I must say that for me, it is extremely uncomfortable to try and dom a guy, even though I can dom a girl with ease. 

this is a very good point and something i can relate to, but at the end of the day im simply not attracted to men. No, im not only looking for something sexual, but i like female identifying people. therefore, i have 0 interest in male identifying people. This is a comment i get all the time and its honestly the most frustrating thing in the world. 

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

I agree with Panda Gob, not even as platonic. Men do not catch my attention more than friends, so I really could not see a man as a daddy because I would really feel uncomfortable.

And something similar happens to me, just that I'm on the other side, I'm looking for a mommy, but the few mommys there are looking for littels boys. And daddys usually talk to me looking for something else, and I'm really not interested, and it's clear that they're not interested in being my friends either, because when I tell them I'm gay they ignore me.

[Crrzyiv4n]

 

im gay? lol[/quote

 

That's seems like s good enough reason to me lol. Happy hunting the right girls out there somewhere

[Barbie Lumina]

I've come across a few LGs looking for a mommy, I think it really sticks out to me because it's more rare than the usual DD/LG relationships. Don't give up though. I'd like to see more mommy doms on here, it's nice ^^

[Guest Mister Grey]

This forum is full of straight people that are still looking, caregivers and littles alike so don’t be discouraged

 

It just going to take time to find the person that was meant for you.  

 

 

Good luck.

[Mikaitaku]

as a switch I can say that there can never be enough mommies. 

[Buttercupcake]

I'm a little and I personally think that mommy's are awesome

[littlefemmenist]

How do you prevent feeling discouraged as a mommy when the community is so heavily based around the concept of daddy doms? Ive been in the community for years and have pretty much always struggled with finding a little girl whos specifically looking for a female domme. Any tips or tricks to remain hopeful and not push away this part of myself?

i feel you!! i'm a little girl looking for a mommy and i've often felt like dommy mommies are nonexistent. but i keep trying to tell myself that my needs and wants are not irrational and that i'm entitled to happiness, and i know you are too! it's definitely a little different to be queer in this community, but we do exist and we're also deserving of love and connection.

 

good luck

[Petal]

Speaking as a gay little, I have always felt extremely alienated in this community.  When I first signed up, I was apologizing in my profile about not being interested in men!  How messed up is that?  But the forum name is DDLG: there's no room there for mommies or little boys or gays of any kind.  And I know that the official stance is all-inclusive, but it's hard to feel represented or part of things when you're disregarded so quickly.

 

I thought I could find a Mommy on this site, and I learned very quickly that it wasn't going to happen.  I know a lot of it is just statistics.  But I guarantee that there are also other gay LGs or Mommy types that feel too out of place to bother signing up.  And that makes an already small sub-sect of the community practically non-existent.  It's a terrible climate for a minority...

 

Anyway, I actually have a really wonderful girlfriend now that is the absolute sweetest person in the world with my little side! She's not "in the community" so to speak, but she's accommodating and accepting and willing to work with me, and that's more than most people would ever do.

 

So the long and short: I'm sorry things are so hard for you, and I completely understand. ;_;  But you'll find what you're looking for, maybe in unexpected places.  Don't stop putting yourself out there. <3 And if you ever wanna talk just send me a message!

[Gertrude]

Hello,

I am a female little who has been looking for a mummy Dom.

There are plenty of daddys out there but have struggled to find a mummy.

Would be really good to chat.

Thank you.

[PrincessPear]

I often fantasize about having a mommy domme. That would be awesome. There are plenty of little girls looking for someone like you. Don't get discouraged!

[Soft-mommy78]

As a mommy my self I totally get where you are coming from and how you feel. You see all the posts about a little looking for a daddy or a daddy looking for a little. I have put on my page looking for a little girl and nothing against the boys at all. I actually have been an thinking about a little boy but it would not have any play in it if I do that. It’s something I need to think about. Because I do every much like the idea of a little girl with her mommy because it’s not something that is really out there. Yes a daddy with a little girl and a mommy with a little boy. But never really a little girl with a mommy.

[Guest Little Otter]

As a mommy my self I totally get where you are coming from and how you feel. You see all the posts about a little looking for a daddy or a daddy looking for a little. I have put on my page looking for a little girl and nothing against the boys at all. I actually have been an thinking about a little boy but it would not have any play in it if I do that. It’s something I need to think about. Because I do every much like the idea of a little girl with her mommy because it’s not something that is really out there. Yes a daddy with a little girl and a mommy with a little boy. But never really a little girl with a mommy.

Mommys with LB's are rare enough too, I cant imagine >.<

[Soft-mommy78]

Mommys with LB's are rare enough too, I cant imagine >.<

I’m sure they are. Mommy’s are very rare I have noticed that for sure.

[Guest Dexi]

I am a gay woman in the UK seeking a Mommy. It's been so hard to find any at all!

[PrincessCharming]

I’m sure you’ll find someone special! I’m a little girl that wants only a mommy, so we’re out here. I’m half convinced there aren’t any mommies out there looking for little girls

[Guest Feisty Bunny]

We're out there! I'm a switch, but my last partner was a bi Mommy and I was her little girl. Sapphic Mommys and littles alike are rare, but we do exist. Keep up hope!