What am I supposed to do?

January 19, 2018

I'm about 5'6, on the larger side, and younger than most littles, I feel like every daddy I encounter just wants to use me for sex or make me feel awful. I live in Tennessee, so not the best place to look I guess but even in online relationships it's the same thing. I'm upset about this because I just wanna make a daddy happy, but with my size and age I don't think that will come anytime soon...

January 19, 2018

Usually (emphasis on usually) those "Daddies" that only want to use you or anyone else for sex don't like to wait around and "waste their time" before trying to form a "dynamic" with someone. I don't know how long you wait before choosing to enter a dynamic with someone but if it's short (month or less) then that might explain why you feel that you only get "Daddies" that just want sex. If that is the case then my advice to you is to slow it down and get to know your potential partner very well before choosing to develop a dynamic with them. This will usually give you a good chance to see their true nature and intentions as well as let you see how well you match.

Now about your size and age, some potentials will like your shape and some won't, like always in life.. What matters most is how comfortable you are in your own skin and how comfortable your partner would make you feel in your own skin.

If you are uncomfortable in your body then work on that, for yourself and no one else. If your partner makes you feel uncomfortable in your own skin then say bye bye, there's no person in the world who has the right to do so.

18 is a very common age at which littles (or anyone else) starts exploring this kind of a lifestyle and they usually lack experience and learn through example or mistakes or whatever so don't worry about it too much. You are at that phase and that's just how it is, everyone goes through it.

Edited January 19, 2018 by Prat(Praetorian)

January 19, 2018

As long as you're 18, there's no real problem, it doesn't matter if you're older/younger - I met my Daddy when I was 18 so there's nothing to say your ages factors into this!

Try not to think about necessarily finding a Daddy and focussing solely on that, I think that can sometimes make it harder! Focus on yourself and expressing your little side without a Daddy and you might be able to find one unexpectedly after you've gotten to know them If they're only using you for sex or making you feel bad about yourself, they're not the Daddy that you want - and that's okay, you can look on the bright side and see that there are so many other people out there who will love you for who you are, you just haven't found them yet, and everything takes some time if you want it to be long lasting and good

January 19, 2018

People are attracted to different sizes. Some people like a chubby/curvy body, others don't. It's all okay.
Age? Well as long as you're 18 that's fine.

Yes many 'fake' daddies are around, but many good genuine ones are too. Take your time getting to know someone. The slower you go, the more likely it is you'll figure out how he really is before you get hurt. The ones that just want a sex toy don't have any patience. Not saying it's a fool proof plan, but it gives you a decent chance at finding someone who cares about you very much