DaddysKitty Posted June 19, 2015 Report Posted June 19, 2015 Bedtime is a new rule of ours. And I was at a friends house last night. And we had a book fire (one of my favorite things) and since its summer I thought I could be up. I had told daddy I would probably want to be up. And it was a half an hour past my 10:30 bedtime and daddy scolded me and I whined. I also slept over that friends house and daddy doesn't like it cause he doesn't trust one of my friends too much that was there. Its been a past argument of ours as a couple and I didn't think about it. Every time I've asked about that I had gotten a yes and a upset daddy out if it. I felt really bad but I was embarrassed to go home so late. And I stayed up waaay too late after that. Daddy gave me a harsh punishment out of anger (that's not in place anymore) and I was more bad without telling daddy cause I thought it was unfair. "The punishment should for the crime " soo I crimes more... I feel really guilty. And I wanted to draw daddy something to Say sorry. I am also his slave so I wrote him a formal apology letter. Daddy got so happy when I drew him a kitty playing video games. And we have been fighting which is scarey. As always j wanna make him happy. Any suggestions. (I'm an artist so I use a sharpie to make my own coloring page to do when I hopefully put myself into little space. Coloring usually does it)
Guest Sae Posted June 19, 2015 Report Posted June 19, 2015 Your write up really confuses me because it screams some abuse signs to me. Like your daddy shouldn't be getting mad at you for being a friends house just because he doesn't trust that person. Thats trust issues on his part. And a Dom should never punish out of anger no matter what the reason might be. there is no justified reasons. Ever. What has he done so far to say sorry to you? As for what to do, do whatever you wish for him. Draw him a picture, don't. Its up to you. Not us. I wouldn't draw him anything because from the sounds of it, he also isn't giving you aftercare which is what you need (and always should get) after you've been punished so you don't feel guilty anymore. 5
ashwee Posted June 21, 2015 Report Posted June 21, 2015 Your write up really confuses me because it screams some abuse signs to me. Like your daddy shouldn't be getting mad at you for being a friends house just because he doesn't trust that person. Thats trust issues on his part. And a Dom should never punish out of anger no matter what the reason might be. there is no justified reasons. Ever. What has he done so far to say sorry to you? As for what to do, do whatever you wish for him. Draw him a picture, don't. Its up to you. Not us. I wouldn't draw him anything because from the sounds of it, he also isn't giving you aftercare which is what you need (and always should get) after you've been punished so you don't feel guilty anymore. You said basically exactly what I would have said… so +1 to that.
DaddysKitty Posted June 23, 2015 Author Report Posted June 23, 2015 Your write up really confuses me because it screams some abuse signs to me. Like your daddy shouldn't be getting mad at you for being a friends house just because he doesn't trust that person. Thats trust issues on his part. And a Dom should never punish out of anger no matter what the reason might be. there is no justified reasons. Ever. What has he done so far to say sorry to you? I wouldn't draw him anything because from the sounds of it, he also isn't giving you aftercare which is what you need (and always should get) after you've been punished so you don't feel guilty anymore. Daddy took away the punishment from when he was upset. And we talked about it more. He apologized for being unfair. And he only didn't want me with my friends cause they used to drink and 420 and that's not a good influence on me.. Daddy brought me to toys r us and we talked more and he bought me a stuffy. We have both been very stressed from a lack of time together. We haven't had any time to talk we have both been working almost constantly. But as far ad I can tell I am no longer punished.
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