Little space after being abandoned

[bellisle]

I'm sure there's been a few people who have gone through this before - after a long lasting relationship, your daddy disappears. Vanishes without a word. For me, it had been five months of a long distance relationship where I'd go and visit him. I found out he was married, and still continued the relationship, and it felt like everything was still good. I had a day collar on, and told him what that meant to me. Then a week ago, he just stopped texting me back. My texts began to not be delivered. I went out just a few days ago specifically to visit him, and basically ended up getting stood up, which I find funny as just last week he had called me and said "did you think I forgot about you?".

 

I'm not looking for condolences because I know what I signed up for, and I can only guess what happened. I do however want to get some ideas on how to stay in little space when all it's doing is make me miss my daddy/owner. If you've been abandoned by your daddy or caregiver, what did you do to keep yourself grounded?

[Littlefilly]

Does being abandoned by your biological father count?

For me the main reason am into DDLG is because of that. I find that reading DDLG stoires on whattsspad helps me get into little space and once am into the book it feel like the dom in the story is taking care of me . sense i do not have a dom myself i hope you try it and it works for you .

[Guest ShaunRoss]

Don't know if I can post this and if it falls in the same category, but I have also been abandoned by my little before. And I know even for us DD it is heart breaking as well.
I think the best is to not jump back into something to serious at first and try to keep occupied with hobbies and be surrounded by friends and make new friends. Talking about it also helps but not to much as you need to move on. I know this is not great advise but maybe something to start of with

[Guest infinitecases]

It wasn’t a daddy or a caregiver but back when I was younger, I was naive enough to think that people stayed forever and that how I felt about them was always going to be reciprocated.. in the end, they left and I spent the next few years alone and unable to really be myself and no amount of apologies or consolation got me anywhere, I literally couldn’t feel anything. I think it helps to not lose your interest in the things that make you feel little - for me it’s going to the seaside and the arcade or getting new teddies. If you can, find some hobbies that aren’t associated with your daddy? That might be hard it but it doesn’t necessarily have to be something that’s little but can at least make you happy - it’s always a good idea to have something that doesn’t remind you of someone, something just for yourself! I find that having something like that lets me concentrate on myself for a little while and really have some time for myself instead of always doing something for someone else as it can get frustrating in a sense.

[littlefemmenist]

i'm just now coming out of a period of complete littlespace withdrawal because i got left. it's been since july of last year (2017), and at first i didn't even have a sex drive at all. so it may take a long time, and i'm terribly sorry that i don't have better news. good friends/family help, good cries help, and space and time help. it's okay to take a break