i need some advice, please

[another english reject]

Heyoo, so my daddy is amazing he's caring, and loves me alottle, he's a switch and he only just told me. But I don't have a dominant bone in my body, and he says he doesn't need a dom and he's still daddy even if he's being little, I just get scared because I cant be even a little dominant in anyway shape or form. I'm scared that he may want something more than me. I feel like everytime we talk about it he just says he's still my daddy and he doesn't need a dom but he referred to himself as prince today and it made me get scared because what if he wants something more than I am. Like a slightly dominant person . What do I do?

[Panda God]

Have you considered the possibility of allowing him to have a platonic CG/babysitter? 

 

If that's an issue (no judgement here), maybe you could just do "little" things together. Watch cute movies/cartoons, make/eat snacks, take naps, have playdates.. Believe it or not, you don't have to be a dom to care for a little, just like you don't have to want kids to be able to take care of them.

[another english reject]

Thanks :3 we watch anime together and I give him cuddles, ironically to your last point I'm a teacher, so I just give him lots of cuddles and let him be the little spoon and I get to spoil him and so I guess its little easier. Thank you for replying

[Panda God]

Thanks :3 we watch anime together and I give him cuddles, ironically to your last point I'm a teacher, so I just give him lots of cuddles and let him be the little spoon and I get to spoil him and so I guess its little easier. Thank you for replying

No problem, friendo. ^~^

[Guest BabyPeach]

It sounds like it's going perfectly.  I wouldn't worry that he will want you to be something that you're not.  He's your partner so he knows you and your personality well.  If you two get along as littles, that's a wonderful thing!  It can be hard for someone to just come out of the blue and say they're a switch if you didn't know that they were a switch at all.

[another english reject]

It wasn't out of the blue I knew he wouldn't admit it. He finally did and I'm just scared that in the future he may want a dom

[Daddylovesme]

Heyo! Little of a switch here! For my Daddy, He told me because that's just how he feels, but he has never needed to have a Dom or anything like that. We've talked about it in the past and when he gets like it sometimes I just lay on him and cuddle him (that's literally it). I don't know how your dynamic works but it sounds like you have trust building to do! I trust that if he needs something he will tell me, and vice versa. We've talked about what we would do if he ever needed to be Dommed (and have in the past, dabbled in others Domming him while Im around). The one time we went somewhere and he was Dommed so to speak, I kinda ended up getting into it! I wasn't Domming but more the guy that was with us was guiding me, and it was a little awkward for me, but it wasn't too bad. 

 

I definetely suggest talking about expirementing and what to do, and just talking to be honest. You've probably heard that before, but one of the best things about BDSM is being able to expirement freely and being able to build an intense bond of trust.  

 

Youll be okay.  <3

 

Feel free to ask me questions if you have any at all