Feminists?

[daddys_doll]

YES THIS, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR, THANK YOU. 

I am owned by my daddy because i want to be, we are two consenting adults and that being the case there is nothing wrong or disgusting with it. :3

[Guest annemarie]

feminism is about destroying the patriarchal world we live in and making it a happier place for everyone. some women are happier being owned by their husbands in a consenting bdsm relationship. telling women that they can't do that isn't feminism. letting women do it without judgment is. yes, i consider myself to be a huge feminist.

[Guest MissNMTX]

Somewhere along the way, I believe feminism lost its way.  Its intended to encompass and promote all women! If you're educated and choose career and family awesome! If you want to stay home and focus on your family awesome! Both choices deserve to/ should be respected. As long as they are choices. 

 

There is now an expectation you can have everything and are expected yo do everything flawlessly and gracefully. Even with in my own circle of female friends I know women who are suffering because of this. In constant conflict. Always feeling like they have to sacrifice something. turns out "having it all" is rare and hard. Most of the time something has to give. Women carry enormous emotions because of this and then when other women comment....you can never win.

 

I don't have a Daddy yet, but when/if I do I'll be expected to actively contribute to the dynamic. Goals, roles, expectations, boundaries, rules, punishments and whatever else are discussed and AGREED to from the beginning. Communication is key in these relationships. Also, all of it is subject to change. If something doesn't work you discuss and change. Will all relationships last? No, but that's true across the board

 

This next part is just my opinion, but I think feminism  contributes to the growth of BDSM relationships. The expectations and pressures women are expected to carry and never break are enormous. For many women, its a relief to have at least one aspect of your life that you don't have to carry the entire load on your own without help because you're superwoman and shouldn't need help. in the DD/lg dynamic particularly there's a great amount of attention put on the woman....her care, growth, and protection...how refreshing

 

Do a bit of research and you'll find abuse id much more common in vanilla relationships. Very rarely to women enter into these relationships with a bit of research and study. As well, as quite a bit of soul searching. Given how women are "supposed to" behave these days. Abuse is abuse and should never be tolerated! Again, communication, communication, communication...with a healthy mega dose of honesty

 

As long as a women actively participated in the decision making with knowledge and respect her choice as a woman should be respected. You can be kind and respectful without having to agree or understand.

[Guest annemarie]

Somewhere along the way, I believe feminism lost its way.  

 

you are....quite mistaken, but i don't have the time or energy to explain why. this is a sensitive topic to me, so i'm just going to leave it at this

[stargirl]

I'm a feminist, and the work I do revolves around empowering women in general. I think that "ownership" is only one aspect and that a lot more goes into it before you can decide if a sexual preference or practice infringes on a woman's right. I don't believe it does if the woman is consciously making that decision. In this case, handing over ownership may serve as an act of empowerment within itself.

[Guest Princessaj]

You have to be a very strong and an educated little/middle/sub to be owned (male or female).

You have to know your boundaries, preferences and when to say stop.

You have to be wise enough to be responsible in choosing a Daddy that respects you.

 

If "Owned" is being strong, educated, with defined boundaries, clear preferences, standing your ground,

wise, responsible and respectful then it is exactly the same as what is being called a "Feminist."

 

If I want to dress up, play with stuffies, color, glitter, wear ones-ys, be spanked, talk in baby talk and call the man

I love-Daddy...that is my business. Be what you are or aspire to be and you can change your mind at any time.

Rock on.

[Guest sweetbabibunny]

I have STRONGLY against feminism. In any kind to be completely honest. Not past nor present. Definitely not present. See, I believe that times should be like the medieval times or the way things were in the 50s. Women biologically are weaker than men in most areas. This isnt opinion this is fact. Women are better equipped to take care of the home and children and men are better equipped to provide for said women and children. I know I have an unpopular opinion but this so called "patriarchy" doesnt exist. The wage gap is complete BS. And I could care less about your "safe space". Im a very realistic person, and this is just reality folks. Im sure I will recieve a ton of hate for this which Im hoping not to being as this goes against the rules of this site. Im a huge anti-feminist and yes I do believe that women should serve men, and that women should respect a mans word over her own. Im very well educated and NO my relationship is not abusive by any means. I do however agree with consent. Consent is key to just about anything you apply it to. That being a doctors office, the grocery store, home life, and so on. No nothing traumatic has happened to me to think this way, and no I was not taught this. In fact I was raised with the exact opposite lesson of what I preach lol. Feminism honestly is ruining everything. Yes before assumptions are made, I do hope Trump wins for president. And NO Im not republican. I think we should have a monarchy to be completely honest lol. And YES I support LGBT. And Yes I think "dragon-kin" and "genders" of that nature are complete BS. Feminism is just a measly fad, and will die out in the next years to come, just like Juicy Tracksuits did in the early 2000's.