Trouble With Little Space

[BabyAsh]

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Just let yourself go into LS.

Cry or whatever if you're feeling emotional, then after you're done crying etc. try again.

 

The worst that can happen is...? Maybe you'll feel silly later. Don't we all?

The best that can happen? You get your Little time back and have lil periods of contentedness and a bad case of the happies, because you're talking to your new DD and feel cared for.

 

It's all okily dokily to have issues with self esteem and whathaveyou. Go slow with that or whatever feels best to you, you're right.

 

But your Little space time shouldn't suffer for it. Don't torture yourself- plenty of other people will do that for you in life.

 

 

It also helps to try and focus on 3 things- audio, visual and textile.

Textile= Touch something that gets you into LS. e.g. plushies, slime, sand/rice, water.

Listen to something that gets you into LS, or use something to cover your ears if you prefer silence.

Watch something that sends you into LS. There are plenty of movie lists throughout the forum if you're stuck for ideas. (which covers audio & visual)

Or browse the internet and go 'window shopping' for Little things. Plushies, beanbags, rugs, curtains, sleeping bags, the general nursery or kids section of something.

 

Take a breath and remember Daddies are just peopledudes too, they're sometimes too busy or need their me-time.

It's hard, I kno. (~ u ^) but you can finds ways to cope *cough-littlespace-cough*

[daddy1992]

Welcome to the forum!

 

yeah that's normal. it's okay for your daddy to be busy from time to time (like a lot of people), but as long that he makes time for you that the main thing. Anyway, Good to hear that you got a new Daddy, it sounds like you just need time and your Daddy can help you with this. My little had a similar problem when we first started dating. But over time she told me why she didn't let go and i think you just need time as i said. talk to your daddy about this and he should be supportives about it and it might help you get that little space out and much easier. i know this did work with my relationship/little. Hope this sorta helped. 

 

Good luck

[Guest infinitecases]

Little space can make you feel especially vulnerable, but if you put it off and bottle it up when you want to do it, it might cause more harm than good. Just take your time and do whatever feels natural, no-one's pressuring you so you an just relax and let go You could talk to your new Daddy about it and see whether he can do anything to ease you into little space so it's not as frightening.

[BabyAsh]

Thank you all for your responsesssss   

 

I'm going to try to let go. I think that maybe the build up of it will just finally explode into a little day instead of little space. I don't know if the DD that I have been talking to will be much help, because I don't feel as if he's truly interested. Maybe it's just me, but he seems very standoffish now. I'll figure it out though.

 

Thank you so much for the help and encouragement