Guest Aquarius Posted January 7, 2018 Report Posted January 7, 2018 Look this was really not the point of the post and both of you are talking about something completely different than what I brought up so if we could go back to that, I would love it. I understand you both have different views on this, but can you talk about it elsewhere. I hope you both understand my thoughts and I dont mean to harm anyone with this response to the argument. Now I hope as men, you can settle this small disagreement with grace and consideration for the other person involved. Sorry, I'll leave him alone. Just creeps me out when guys declare "well, I'm not like that" in an attempt score virtue points. And apologising for other people you've never met in order to get bonus virtue points is even weaker. Look, you're posting cute photos in the gallery, so you're gonna get dudes propositioning you. Most of them will be lame… and by lame I just mean they're not honest. Either with themselves or you. "I just want to be friends" — sure, buddy. Sure. I'm afraid this is life. It's like turning up to a bar looking really sexy… you're going to get approached, and you've gotta learn how to reject men, hopefully with some grace, but you've gotta be harsh if you have to. These are your boundaries, so you've got to learn how to make sure people don't over step them. 1
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 7, 2018 Author Report Posted January 7, 2018 Sorry, I'll leave him alone. Just creeps me out when guys declare "well, I'm not like that" in an attempt score virtue points. And apologising for other people you've never met in order to get bonus virtue points is even weaker. Look, you're posting cute photos in the gallery, so you're gonna get dudes propositioning you. Most of them will be lame… and by lame I just mean they're not honest. Either with themselves or you. "I just want to be friends" — sure, buddy. Sure. I'm afraid this is life. It's like turning up to a bar looking really sexy… you're going to get approached, and you've gotta learn how to reject men, hopefully with some grace, but you've gotta be harsh if you have to. These are your boundaries, so you've got to learn how to make sure people don't over step them. Thank you. I will work on that. Your advice has helped tons. Have a great day hun.
DaddyCuddleMonster Posted January 7, 2018 Report Posted January 7, 2018 Look this was really not the point of the post and both of you are talking about something completely different than what I brought up so if we could go back to that, I would love it. I understand you both have different views on this, but can you talk about it elsewhere. I hope you both understand my thoughts and I dont mean to harm anyone with this response to the argument. Now I hope as men, you can settle this small disagreement with grace and consideration for the other person involved. As an individual who is a part of this forum community (which it seems is merely a "mental abstraction" to some), I apologize for taking your topic in a different direction than you intended. I never meant this to be a pissing contest with anyone. Gentlemen will act as such and boys will be boys. Character is always revealed over time. Take the advice given by so many on here: be selective of who you allow to be your friends. Know and communicate your boundaries and expectations. Unfriend, block and report those who reveal themselves to be less than men of character. And finally, have fun! Life is too amazing to be wasted on those who lack the ability to recognize their own value or the value of others. ~Wishing you all the best, CuddleMonster
MasterBrent Posted January 7, 2018 Report Posted January 7, 2018 Sorry, I'll leave him alone. Just creeps me out when guys declare "well, I'm not like that" in an attempt score virtue points. And apologising for other people you've never met in order to get bonus virtue points is even weaker. Look, you're posting cute photos in the gallery, so you're gonna get dudes propositioning you. Most of them will be lame… and by lame I just mean they're not honest. Either with themselves or you. "I just want to be friends" — sure, buddy. Sure. I'm afraid this is life. It's like turning up to a bar looking really sexy… you're going to get approached, and you've gotta learn how to reject men, hopefully with some grace, but you've gotta be harsh if you have to. These are your boundaries, so you've got to learn how to make sure people don't over step them. Your posts wreak of condescension, funny how you can't see the irony in your posts where you try to hard to set yourself apart from other men. "You're not like that" uh? The only person who appears to be trying to score points here is yourself. Anyway, apologies to the OP for my post I just hate to see bullying in any walk of life, and Aquarius posts are a fine example of passive aggressive bullying. As for the subject at hand I agree with what others have said, just block the person sending the message if they make you uncomfortable. I'm sure you've learned how to spot the "fake" daddies from the genuine ones who are interested in conversing and becoming friends. 1
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