lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 I get a lot of people wanting to talk to me which is fine I love when people want to start a conversation. The only problem with this is when they do they go straight to wanting to be my daddy. They jump all the introductions and meeting and go to wanting to be with me. I try to be as nice to them as I can, but I also don´t want this to happen anymore. I would love to get to know people and things like that but I dont want to be bugged about why I dont want to be someones little. I dont know them and most of the time I just am not interested. I try to tell them this, but they keep on and I feel bad when I just stop texting them. What should I do? Love~ Princess Bubbles
Guest SaladHater Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 If they don’t listen the first time just hit them with the block button or unfriendly button lol 1
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 only problem with that is they make other accounts to message me soooo?
Halseyn Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 That's sad, I guess it's best to be firm and polite with saying no. 1
Guest jimmy3737 Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 Just be honest and straight forward. Be as blunt as you need to be when someone is like that. If they cannot be respectful, then they are not worth your time and effort. You have to come first. 1
Guest SUeB Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 I get a lot of people wanting to talk to me which is fine I love when people want to start a conversation. The only problem with this is when they do they go straight to wanting to be my daddy. They jump all the introductions and meeting and go to wanting to be with me. I try to be as nice to them as I can, but I also don´t want this to happen anymore. I would love to get to know people and things like that but I dont want to be bugged about why I dont want to be someones little. I dont know them and most of the time I just am not interested. I try to tell them this, but they keep on and I feel bad when I just stop texting them. What should I do? Love~ Princess Bubbles Stop trying to be so nice. I'm afraid it really is that simple. Tel them once, and if they continue to bug you, don't reply anymore and block them. You aren't being a b**** , you are just not tolerating people who refuse to take no for an answer. Trust me, if ypu keep trying to be nice, they will hound you forever, and get more and more annoying and most likely insulting and aggressive.
Guest SUeB Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 only problem with that is they make other accounts to message me soooo? Ok, then you just block immediately. No conversation, no chance of them getting any attention. These sites are filled with morons like that. Put something on your profile stating you are not looking for a daddy, and you won't reply to anyone offering. Sometimes you really just have to be blunt. 1
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 Well i guess thats really all I can do. Thanks for the help guys! Ok, then you just block immediately. No conversation, no chance of them getting any attention. These sites are filled with morons like that. Put something on your profile stating you are not looking for a daddy, and you won't reply to anyone offering. Sometimes you really just have to be blunt.
Guest Aquarius Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 Littles can be like that as well. I just don't get how someone could be so keen to be in a relationship with someone just from a forum profile, a few messages or just a couple of photos. I actually find it impossible to develop feelings for someone if I'm not getting to know them, in person, face to face. 1
Guest bunnybear11 Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 Unfortunately that's the reason I don't add daddy doms on here, I know it's a bit harsh but it gets the job done :/ 2
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 Littles can be like that as well. I just don't get how someone could be so keen to be in a relationship with someone just from a forum profile, a few messages or just a couple of photos. I actually find it impossible to develop feelings for someone if I'm not getting to know them, in person, face to face. I know right! Like I dont understand how they can ¨Fall in love with me¨ just by looking at my profile. Like what?
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 Unfortunately that's the reason I don't add daddy doms on here, I know it's a bit harsh but it gets the job done :/ I really think im going to have to start doing that. Even though it kinda sucks.
DaddyCuddleMonster Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 Princess Bubbles, You are a beautiful young lady. I doubt it is at all surprising to you that men find you attractive. That said, it does not entitle them to assume anything as far as a relationship. A relationship, any relationship, is something that is earned over time and through mutual trust and mutual interests. Far too few people, big and little understand this. If a man cannot respect your boundaries, he is one who lacks the character needed to be a caregiver in the first place. I understand Carobear's decision to simply exclude all who claim to be a Daddy on here, but perhaps there is a middle ground between those who simply call themselves caregivers and those who actually are. As a man, please allow me to apologize for all the men who have made you feel stressed and frustrated. Being a little is supposed to be about being cared for. I truly hope those you allow close to you learn to understand that. 1
Mikaitaku Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 What purpose does being kind to creepy people serve? 1
Guest Aquarius Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 As a man, please allow me to apologize for all the men who have made you feel stressed and frustrated. Why are you apologising for shit other people have done? As a man, have some respect for yourself. 3
Guest RocketCatRocketCat Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 OMFG Anyways. I. Hate. That. They usually text me and immediately want to be my daddy, and then immediately they want sex I’m always too anxious to say no to them to because you know ANXIETY so yah I’ve been in a lot of bad relationships cause a combination of rushed guys and fear to say know >~<
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 OMFG Anyways. I. Hate. That. They usually text me and immediately want to be my daddy, and then immediately they want sex I’m always too anxious to say no to them to because you know ANXIETY so yah I’ve been in a lot of bad relationships cause a combination of rushed guys and fear to say know >~< Me too!!! I agree! Finally someone understands. Why are you apologising for shit other people have done? As a man, have some respect for yourself. I thought it was sweet so? I think as a woman men should stick with each other. I feel as if he has plenty of respect for himself. I saw nothing wrong with his comment.
DaddyCuddleMonster Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 Why are you apologising for shit other people have done? As a man, have some respect for yourself. Trust me, sir, there is neither lack of self-respect nor reason for lack of self-respect here. I find that those who are most secure in their own being are the few who can not only admit to their own short-comings, but also do things for the betterment of the community. It takes absolutely nothing away from me as a man to speak to the hurt of a lady. Truthfully, it takes nothing away from any man with a clear conscience for me to apologize for those of our gender who are less than noble in their character. The only ones who should possibly take offense to my apology would be those who find themselves guilty of the rude and unwelcomed behavior that this thread addresses. I wonder, do you find yourself in that camp? If so, a better approach would be for you to address yourself instead of attempting to come after me. (and just to help you a little as you navigate through life: you spell it "apologizing") ~All the best to you in 2018, CuddleMonster
Guest ~*~Sachita~*~ Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 I agree with you, it is very annoying when a person goes straight to wanting a relationship. Unfortunately, the internet is littered with predators and littles have a reputation for being naive. If this is happening with people you meet on this site, that behavior is against our rules and you can report them for it. As a reminder, the Community Rules and Guidelines state: Be respectful and courteous of each other and our staff. The staff is here to help. Remember that you can contact us for any of the following reasons: (always screenshot suspicious behavior or rule breaking) If someone breaks the rules. If you have a question about a warning or message you’ve received. If someone shows predatory behavior. If you have evidence or hints that someone is underage. If you are not sure where to post something, or if it is allowed at all. For the record, a lot of the behavior described above could be considered disrespectful, harassment, or predatory. And the behavior is likely to continue because no one is reporting them.
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 I agree with you, it is very annoying when a person goes straight to wanting a relationship. Unfortunately, the internet is littered with predators and littles have a reputation for being naive. If this is happening with people you meet on this site, that behavior is against our rules and you can report them for it. As a reminder, the Community Rules and Guidelines state: Be respectful and courteous of each other and our staff. The staff is here to help. Remember that you can contact us for any of the following reasons: (always screenshot suspicious behavior or rule breaking) If someone breaks the rules. If you have a question about a warning or message you’ve received. If someone shows predatory behavior. If you have evidence or hints that someone is underage. If you are not sure where to post something, or if it is allowed at all. For the record, a lot of the behavior described above could be considered disrespectful, harassment, or predatory. And the behavior is likely to continue because no one is reporting them. Thank you very much! If I see anymore of it after this I will send you or someone else on the staff screenshots.
Guest Aquarius Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 (edited) Truthfully, it takes nothing away from any man with a clear conscience for me to apologize for those of our gender who are less than noble in their character. There's nothing noble about apologising for something that you did not do. And especially apologising on the behalf of a 'group.' The 'group' is a mental abstraction. Groups are made up of individuals. We group people by gender… but why not hair colour? or eye colour? or height? or attractiveness? Why is genitalia so important. There are assholes in the world. Those assholes can be men or women. And why apologise for assholes if you're not one? I like this quote from Ayn Rand, it sums up what I think of group identity: "The smallest minority on earth is the individual. Those who deny individual rights cannot claim to be defenders of minorities." and just to help you a little as you navigate through life: you spell it "apologizing" No, here in the UK we spell apologising with an S. Edited January 6, 2018 by Aquarius 1
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 There's nothing noble about apologising for something that you did not do. And especially apologising on the behalf of a 'group.' The 'group' is a mental abstraction. Groups are made up of individuals. We group people by gender… but why not hair colour? or eye colour? or height? or attractiveness? Why is genitalia so important. There are assholes in the world. Those assholes can be men or women. And why apologise for assholes if you're not one? I like this quote from Ayn Rand, it sums up what I think of group identity: "The smallest minority on earth is the individual. Those who deny individual rights cannot claim to be defenders of minorities." No, here in the UK we spell apologising with an S. Look this was really not the point of the post and both of you are talking about something completely different than what I brought up so if we could go back to that, I would love it. I understand you both have different views on this, but can you talk about it elsewhere. I hope you both understand my thoughts and I dont mean to harm anyone with this response to the argument. Now I hope as men, you can settle this small disagreement with grace and consideration for the other person involved.
Little Illy Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 (edited) Just saying, I'm going to be that person - But as a pretty woman, you know that posting this will also get you unwanted attention. The whole creepy guy saying "Oh I am sooooo different! Let me show you!" Not your fault, but thats just how these creeps work. So, there really is a simple answer here - Don't accept friend requests without knowing someone well enough. If they get creepy and persistent then you screenshot, report and block. To do anything else is to let them continue. Again, as you are a pretty woman on the internet, you probably know this already. Just stop accepting friend requests until you know they are FRIENDS. It will save you a LOT of trouble. And is exactly why the 'No PM unless friend' rule exists. I hope it stops, for you. I know the struggle, which is why I am so limited in my friend accepts. Has made a world a difference. Edited January 6, 2018 by Little Illy
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 I Just saying, I'm going to be that person - But as a pretty woman, you know that posting this will also get you unwanted attention. The whole "Oh I am sooooo different! Let me show you!" Not your fault, but thats just how these creeps work. So, there really is a simple answer here - Don't accept friend requests without knowing someone well enough. If they get creepy and persistent then you screenshot, report and block. To do anything else is to let them continue. Again, as you are a pretty woman on the internet, you probably know this already. Just stop accepting friend requests until you know they are FRIENDS. It will save you a LOT of trouble. And is exactly why the 'No PM unless friend' rule exists. I hope it stops, for you. I know the struggle, which is why I am so limited in my friend accepts. Has made a world a difference. I am going to try my best. And yes I understand the rule that is why most of the people I do say yes to are people I have talked to in the chat and other forums. The only problem is a week or so into talking they do this. I am trying my best to pick out the creeps and non- creeps, but most of the act innocent until things do not go their way. I had no idea about the blocking or reporting so thank you for that information. I will try my best to block all accounts that seem fishy or that do anything in an inappropriate way that I do not approve of.
lilprincessbubbles Posted January 6, 2018 Author Report Posted January 6, 2018 And I have not gotten any unwanted attention from this post what so ever. It has all been advice and people helping me with the issue, but I can understand how people will assume that is what will happen. As a pretty woman on the internet I understand that there are dangerous people and I have to be careful. I just needed a more efficient way of dealing with these types of people.
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