Guest wendyppp Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 Daddy seems to have been pulling away for a few weeks now. We have been together for about 5 months and I am crazy about him but he seemed to change all of a sudden after asking me to turn my entire life upside down for him. This is a kind of pain I don't know how to deal with. Usually I'd go to Daddy, but well...
Guest Stinkin'ol'Fred Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 The best revenge you could ever get is leavin somebody completely the heck alone. Meaning don't chase him no matter how much it hurts, no matter how much love etc,... A coward dumps someone through texts. Consider it a favor like the trash took itself out. Almost guarantee he will need you before you need him. 1
pixelpixzie Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 Best revenge is to love yourself and be happy. You deserve a caregiver who treats you good.
Guest RocketCatRocketCat Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 OH HEEEEEEECK NO Girl, you’re a fricking QUEEN If he can’t see that, then off with his head!! For real though, I’ve been dumped over text many a time. Once, I’ve been dumped through friends. Guys are just meanie heads and cowards (not all of them some of them are nice) and one like that is not worth your precious time. Go eat some ice cream while taking a bubble bath, cause Queen, you are WORTH. IT 3
Guest ParanoidAsylum Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 I know that it hurts, I'm not saying to get over it, but the best thing to do is take that pain, let it fuel you, rise up higher with the ones that actually care about you, higher than you ever could've with him dragging you down. You can do it! 2
Guest SUeB Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 (edited) Yes it hurts. So sorry you're having to deal with this. Some people just don't know how to act like human beings. It will take time, but in time you will see that he wasn't the right one for you. Just take care of yourself. It just takes time. Nothing more. Just time. Edited January 6, 2018 by SUeB
Guest wendyppp Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 (edited) He keeps trying to put it back on me, with various reasons that make no sense at all... And really i just want to crawl into a hole and die. Edited January 6, 2018 by wendyppp
MrJohnny Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 I was content to let the previous replies speak on their own as good advice (and it is STILL good advice) and then I read your last post and my heart broke for you. Please understand that this is NOT your fault, nor is this person worth your misery. I know personally that depression can be a very real challenge, and that sometimes it seems that you are not only fighting a world full of crappy people but that you are also fighting yourself. I totally applaud your reaching out to the Community for help. That is exactly the right thing to do, but please don't stop there: take the Community's advice, accept the Community's support, and move forward doing positive things. You are a valuable and lovable person, and realizing that comes with valuing and loving yourself first.
bouncybbe Posted January 8, 2018 Report Posted January 8, 2018 (edited) Oh my gosh, I'm soooo sorry!! You didn't deserve that awful treatment at all! 5 months is a long time to have your heart be open, and what he did was so unfair. Here are a couple notes I would say to you: You deserve someone who loves you unconditionally. He was a coward, a nasty and gross coward, and cowards don't get to be Daddy's to amazing people like you!! Let yourself feel this pain. It'll hurt to experience it, but you'll be stronger and better at the end of it, and there IS an end! It feels scary, like it'll never go away, but it DOES go away in time, and until it goes away you have this big and lovely community to hold you if you need us! I am always here to chat if you need! Make a list of all the things you love about yourself. This way you can remind yourself that you are your own person, a beautiful and amazing person, who will find someone to love you in the future. You have all these amazing qualities about you, and if you keep a list and look at it you'll remind yourself of what your dumb ol' ex just lost! And trust me, he lost someone AMAZING! Don't let go of your little side; your littleness might feel hurt to be abandoned in such a bad way, but you have to love being little even if Daddy's are mean! Make sure you have your stuffies and all the things that make you feel little close by so that you can always take care of yourself. You deserve to feel happy! Never be afraid to reach out. These times are hard, but you don't have to deal with them alone! Sending all the positive vibes possible!! You're amazing and deserve good things! :heart: Edited January 8, 2018 by bouncybbe
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