I’m new and would be happy to get some help >.<

[Daddy’s baby Nini]

Hi I’m Nini I am now 18 so not illegal here ^^ my daddy is 30 and I am super super new to being a little ;-;

I’m still very confused.. well I’ll just tell my story first so... two or even three days ago my boyfriend confessed he is a daddy, he said he couldn’t hide it anymore because I just act a lot like a little child and he can’t stop wanting to be my daddy... well at first I was like WHAAAT !? But since I’m open for everything and always thought it was cute I agreed. Also because I loved him like to the moon and back ... I’ve been trying a lot to find out more because I’m super confused what to do and .... it’s very weird to get used to says no daddy all the time. first of all to be honest I just wanted to talk about it once ;-; i need advise and these days I’m just super confused >.<

If someone could answer me these questions that would be sooooo nice and I will give a BIG hug

What exactly is little space ?

Some have hobby’s like coloring and stuff but can I still do my own hobbies for example embroidery and sewing ?

What about all those rules ?

Do I have to use child like language ?

Did some of you tell your friends or family about being little ? Was it Bad ?

What if I don’t wear super cute clothes does it make me weird or different ? ( even tho I LOVEEEE cute clothes, I just feel more comfortable in skater clothes ;-; )

I have a lot more questions but these are the ones I could think of for now ;-; I would be super duper happy if someone would answer me or... if someone would even like to be my friend >.<

Thank you and lots of love~

[Rebel]

What exactly is little space ?  

 

Little space is how a person feels or acts. Its somewhat a state of mind, but its different for everyone. 

 

Some have hobby’s like coloring and stuff but can I still do my own hobbies for example embroidery and sewing ? 

 

Being a little doesn't restrict you from having your own hobbies. 

What about all those rules ? 

 

All those rules are agreed upon by both the Caregiver and the Little. Nothing says you have to have rules, because everyone is different.

 

Do I have to use child like language ?

 

No you do not. Little space is what you make of it. 

Did some of you tell your friends or family about being little ? Was it Bad ? 

 

Some have, but I believe the majority have not. Its like telling your parents about your sex life, generally you don't do it.

What if I don’t wear super cute clothes does it make me weird or different ? ( even tho I LOVEEEE cute clothes, I just feel more comfortable in skater clothes ;-; )

 

Like I said above, little space and CG/L is what you make of it. There is no rule stating if you don't wear cute clothes you're not a little. You can wear what you want.

 

 

 

The only thing is if you want to pursue this life further, I would suggest talking to your BF/Daddy, both sitting down together and doing some research, and discuss what you want, what you wanna try, and hard limits.

 

Hope that helped 

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Little Space is most commonly used to refer to the mindset similar to (if not) age

regression. However I personally refer to Little Space as literally the space that I

keep all my Little or cutesy belongings lol

 

You don't have to colour in or go out of your way to roll on the floor, watch cartoons etc.

Your Daddy has said he likes you for you- and besides, some young people sew

and embroider. (Edit: I do the aforementioned too, and don't feel any less Little for it).

As a child I tried knitting with my mother for e.g. ^-^

 

You don't have to have rules if you don't want.

But if you do, they don't need to be along the same lines as anyone else's.

Rules are a personal thing to each couple. If you want to do it just for the fun

of doing it, you can make them simple like "give kisses, go to bed by 'blah o'clock',

brush teeth" stuff you'd pretty much normally do. It's mostly between your Daddy and

you.

 

No you do not need to babytalk. Speak however you want. It's a choice, lol

 

I personally have not told any family, nor friends. It's a kink/fetish thing mostly and

is completely unnecessary to discuss with people close to you.

Would you want your parents to come out to you with

"so your dad likes anal. and he got me this collar"?

Guessing not. lol

 

You don't have to wear what anyone else wears. Your Daddy obviously alreaady loves your style.

He might like it if you change it up a little on occasion, but that's something to discuss with him.

 

 

I hope that helps. Don't take any of it as "law", as I'm just another person in the community giving my own opinions and understandings. ^^

Edited January 5, 2018 by MarshmallowSnot

[Daddy’s baby Nini]

[Guest Ignea]

Just be who you are , and stay true to that.

 

There is no worng or right in the way , what hobby you have , clothes you wear  way you talk, its about how you feel , deep down inside, what makes you happy.

 

You are a little by heart, you dont simply become one bcoz your partner is a Daddy or a CG..

 

 

My advice if its all new  for you ,  talk here witjh others read a lot on the forum and otherways. see what fits with you and tyour feelings.

And talk/communicate with your partner/Daddy lots and lots

[LittleKitten13]

What exactly is little space ? 

I would say that little space could be different for each little.  For me, it is a place I go where I genuinely feel small, and childlike.  Anything sexual frightens me (I'm not a sexual little), and big noises are definitely scary as well.  I get more excited about things.  Some people can control their little space, when they go into it and when they don't, others, like me, struggle with being able to control it, and just slip in or out of little space.

Some have hobby’s like coloring and stuff but can I still do my own hobbies for example embroidery and sewing ? 

You absolutely can have your own hobbies!  I love to draw and color (sometimes), but I still like to write (sometimes very intense things, not really suited for a person of my little age, which is around 5)

What about all those rules ? 

To this, I say, "What rules?"  Papa and I don't have rules.  You don't have to have rules at all.
 

Do I have to use child like language ?

Do you want to use childlike language?  If not, no, you don't have to.  When I slip into little space, it's very difficult for me NOT to slip up and talk like a child, even in text.

Did some of you tell your friends or family about being little ? Was it Bad ? 

Sort of?  A few of my friends know, and the ones I've told support me, and love me all the same, even when I lose control of little space and wind up being little around them.  I think when it comes to sharing with friends and/or family, you have to know the person you're telling.  Are they likely to shun you, or be rude about it?  

What if I don’t wear super cute clothes does it make me weird or different ? ( even tho I LOVEEEE cute clothes, I just feel more comfortable in skater clothes ;-; ) 

You are perfectly fine to wear whatever you want!  I work at a school, so I have to dress professionally at least 5 days out of the week.  Yeah, sometimes my outfits are cute, other times they're just professional outfits, that you would probably not expect a little to wear.