Ways to expand DDLG relationship?

[Lola Step]

Just a bit of a random question but I was wondering if anybody had any ideas about slowly intergrating ddlg into other parts of a relationship? My daddy already knows i like it and we already use it in the....bedroom....*blush* but I would really like to extend it to other parts of our everyday life so if anyone has any subtle ideas how to do this that would be great

[Maarloeve]

no CG in their right mind is going to turn away extra kisses and cuddles

[daddy1992]

Good question.

having rules for day on day life.
Telling your daddy where you are at all time.
Having permission to go out with friend and ect... 
Tell your daddy to do all the adult things when being in little space or not even in little space..
Having a bed time 

 

There a lot more but i can't think of anything else at this point. but good start 

[Lola Step]

These are all really super suggestions so thank you both, but I was thinking ways I could encourage it out of him without actually asking, I'm a bit shy so is there anything your little does to 'bring the daddy' out in you without actually asking?

[daddy1992]

all good, That's a good question. i know when my little one is in little space she does hints to me if i don't do something that i need to do. She points and pull on my clothes and just points and i usually get it. but that's a good question. It took time for my little to asked me stuff. I just done a lot of research and i been in the community for sometime now. so it was easier for me. i guess if you are shy about telling him that;s understanding but maybe you have to tell him what you want. 

[Guest QueenPrincess]

While it's fine to feel shy and play a shy role, honesty and transparency will need to take precedence if you want the relationship to work out. Be sure to tell him that you're okay with taking the immersion slow!

 

If you want a really gentle way to test the waters, maybe call him daddy during a nonsexual conversation in the car? (***preferably on the way home somewhere, if this is a sexual dynamic between you two right now, there's a good chance of arousal)

 

My guess is unless you openly express an interest in exploring general/nonsexual ddlg play, he's going to take it as an initiation for sexy time. Even in my example in the car, there's a chance he'll think you want to go at it in the car somehow. Or you want to have sex immediately upon getting home. And can you blame him?

[Guest SUeB]

First of all, does he also want to intigrate it into everyday life, or is it just you that does? The answer to that can make a huge difference.

[Lola Step]

Thanks for all of your advice, obviously I do eventually plan on having a talk with him, we communicate amazingly about everything else, I just wanted to get a few ideas to test the water first as PrincessNotBaby put it because as you can imagine this isn't something I want to just throw out there

[cutelittlevixey]

Maybe a date to a place like the zoo, or even a walk through the park where you can ask your CG to push you on the swings

 

One of the first non-bedroom experiences Daddy and i had was when the morning after a really great bedroom session. He made me a bowl of cereal for breakfast and asked "little me" if i had fun with Daddy last night. Gahhh... i melt just remembering!

Watching a movie together that is not explicitly little but can bring out the feeling (Nightmare Before Christmas, as an example) is another way to ease into it.

 

Another fond memory i have is telling Daddy i wanted Kung Fu Panda Kid Cuisine and He actually bought them for me and i ate them on my break at work.

[Guest bunnybear11]

These are all really super suggestions so thank you both, but I was thinking ways I could encourage it out of him without actually asking, I'm a bit shy so is there anything your little does to 'bring the daddy' out in you without actually asking?

Hii, I used to be suuper super shy and completely get what u mean, and I always struggled with this, but I've found that through ddlg I've started to become more comfortable with myself, and that influenced me and my daddy's communication.

 

For example, before I used to never be able to tell daddy things I liked/didn't like in the bedroom, but I found it that my shyness actually makes me seem/feel even more like a little girl, because these are things I don't usually say, and this boost in communication has been helping us in all aspects.

 

So what I'm saying is that even your shyness could make him feel more daddy-like, if you use that to your favor.