Guest cutesky Posted January 4, 2018 Report Posted January 4, 2018 So I have a daddy and we've been together for about 9 months and he's really nice and amazing and supportive but we are long distance and never seen each other (we will in march) but we skype about 4-5 times a week and spend as much time together as we can anyway he seems really committed to our relationship which is great but he didn't tell anyone about us ever when I asked him why he told me that he knows that he's friends wouldn't be supportive about it and when I asked about his parents he told me he will tell them but hr never told me he did, why do you think he keeps me a secret and what should I do about it?
DeciDaddy Posted January 4, 2018 Report Posted January 4, 2018 The fact that he's been Skyping with you so much makes it clear that he does care about you. So to me it seems that he might be afraid of being judged for having such a relationship. This is something you should talk about with him though. Anyone on the internet can make some guesses, but he's the one with the actual answer.
Rebel Posted January 4, 2018 Report Posted January 4, 2018 Honestly, I am in a similar scenario. I have a little and we have been together for a bit, but there is only one person in my life that knows we are together (he is my best and in all reality only friend XD). Anyways, he doesn't know the dynamic we have, and I don't intend on telling anyone that. I haven't told my folks because I know they would try to uproot everything and lay every negative aspect of a long distance relationship on me, to attempt to break us up. The only difference being I have seen my little once, and we are going to again in give or take a month. If he is like me, he might be waiting until you have known each other in person for a long while before he wants to tell his folks. Until then, personally, I would not worry much about it. If you are concerned, the best thing I can say is talk to him, because open communication is best. Hopefully that helped in any way.
Guest SUeB Posted January 4, 2018 Report Posted January 4, 2018 Do you mean he won't tell them about you in general, or he won't tell them about the fact you're in a ddlg relationship? If it's the first one, yeah sorry i would have a problem with that. If it's the second one, then i completely agree he shouldn't go telling people, ESPECIALLY his family.
Guest cutesky Posted January 4, 2018 Report Posted January 4, 2018 (edited) Do you mean he won't tell them about you in general, or he won't tell them about the fact you're in a ddlg relationship? If it's the first one, yeah sorry i would have a problem with that. If it's the second one, then i completely agree he shouldn't go telling people, ESPECIALLY his family. Edited January 4, 2018 by cutesky
Guest cutesky Posted January 4, 2018 Report Posted January 4, 2018 No I mean in general no one need to know the Ddlg part but us
Guest Loki Posted January 4, 2018 Report Posted January 4, 2018 I agree with the others, but want to add If he’s not telling anyone he has a girlfriend that’s might be a red flag. He might be seeing someone else or he might not be ready for a relationship.
Princesspoopybutt Posted January 4, 2018 Report Posted January 4, 2018 My daddy and i have been together for over a year now and not met simply because we have been unable to as of yet and from a couple people i have told about the distance I've learnt its not always a good idea. I've had a couple ask about "how do you have sex?" And a couple thinking they are just a casual thing and they wont turn into anything so I've learnt to not tell any one my uncle knows but he's more of a friend and he knows almost everything and then a couple family members know from Facebook but have yet to raise the topic with me. I understand him not thinking his friends will be supportive but if it truely is bugging you then talk to him about it as stated above if he talks as often as he can and Skype quite a lot then that usually means he does care and the fact that he is willing to meet up in person shows he is willing to invest into the relationship.
daddy1992 Posted January 5, 2018 Report Posted January 5, 2018 Haven't read anyone reply on this question else yet. but it could be many things. Be might just need time or waiting until you guys meet? My little one and i are sort of long distance.. we live 45 mins away but its good to hear you guys are going to meet and ect. i know that feeling. i sort of did that when i first started dating my little. but i guess i did told some mates but not family until we met. but yeah. idk maybe asked him and find out why he hasn't told anyone... good luck!
Guest SUeB Posted January 6, 2018 Report Posted January 6, 2018 No I mean in general no one need to know the Ddlg part but us OK, yep. Red flag then. Doesn't necessarily mean he's a monster. Just that he obviously doesn't take your "relationship" seriously. You're not important enough to him to mention.
klerido Posted January 7, 2018 Report Posted January 7, 2018 It's good thing that you will see him soon, that way you can talk to him personally about his future plans with you. Good luck to your relationship.
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