Guest Sae Posted March 21, 2015 Report Posted March 21, 2015 What is DDLG? Ddlg stands for Daddy Dom Little Girl. This name misleads people into thinking Ddlg is only meant for a man and a woman. Ddlg is the title of the dynamic, not the guidelines of what it needs to be. There is a ton of people who are apart of DDlg, men, women, trans and non-binary people. Ddlg is a role play and power exchange. For a role play to work you need one person to be the dominant figure, in this case, the Daddy, Mommy or another caregiver. This person’s purpose is to look after and guide there submissive to things that are good and healthy for them, while trying to keep them away from things that aren’t healthy. (What people think is healthy, differs from person to person) But there main role as a DD is to guide and make sure that there little is going down the right path. a power exchange dynamic between two people, or more. In this dynamic you need a dominant person and a submissive person. In these two people the dynamic is created. The submissives duties and the dominant duties are both similar and are on the same field of reasponsibility. When these relationships are created all parties involved should talk about what they are wanting and seeking. Even in the case of people being switches, the roles and responsibilities should be the same. Generally speaking, most relationships work better if all parties are taking part in their relationships, DDlg is no different, even if you are a little you still have your voice and you should still be able to explain how you feel about things. You are an adult first and foremost. What Ddlg isn’t: Ddlg isn’t.... lolicon, The book Lolita, Nymphets Incest pedophilia. Sugar Daddy, or Sugar mommy. Sugaries are a different life style. They aren't apart of Ddlg. Often people get it mix up with DDlg because of the title Sugar Daddy. But A sugar Daddy is someone you do sexual favors for in exchange for goods. This is a role play dynamic. if someone is telling you they want to hurt a child, or do real incestPlease talk to your local police. This behavior is unacceptable and not okay. This is a life style between TWO CONSENTING ADULTS. Warnings, safety: Because DDlg is a kink, and a fetish lifestyle, people should be waiting until they are of age and legal. Checking on the age or consent is really important and if someone isn’t willing to tell you there age, or are they live in, don’t go for a relationship with them. Don't feel bad for needing to check ID's and other things. Do not let minors partake in Ddlg. Even if they are legal in your place in the world, Legally that person’s country or status rules passes with that person because they are a member of that area. Not yours. Safety is really important in DDLG, BDSM and kink. Read up on safety tips, use safe toys, and make sure a safe word and other stuff has been talk about. Do not pressure someone into have sex with you. People are allowed to change their feelings. Can I explore DDlg, even if I’m not legal? The dynamic is meant for adults. Not teenagers. You deal with a lot of stuff already, adding a complex relationship on top isn’t necessary. Even if you are 17, just wait a little bit longer, then explore. Can I explore my little space? If your little space is non-sexual then go for it! Little Space should be a lot more then sex. Can I post here? Even if I'm underage? We are NOT allowing users underage to post and make friends on here, due to legal reasons. 8
gah!ghost Posted March 21, 2015 Report Posted March 21, 2015 Very well said. Don't have much to add but this is very good advice. I think anyone, but especially those younger among us, could find this useful.
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