Little space help

[deyabobeya]

Hey guys, so i’ve never been in little space before and everytime i try regressing, i cant and i end up crying. i’ve tried everything. i’ve tried having a caregiver, pretending to be little, and even hypnosis specifically for regressing. is it just me? and i just a bad little? like i don’t know how to fix this and it seriously makes me so upset

[Guest devilsangel]

There is no specific "littlespace" it is different for everyone, if you are comparing your littlespace to how others experience theirs that could be part of the frustration.

 

Personally I tumbled upon my littlespace naturally, but it isnt something you can really force... Do things you like to do and let it come naturally, nudge it along with typical things if you want but from what I understand from my personal experiences is that I cannot force my littlespace, im either in it or im not...

[cuppycakes]

I don't regress, and plenty of other littles don't either. If you really want to regress, that's something you can try but you certainly don't have to force yourself to do something!

 

You are valid. There's no right way to be little. The only wrong way to be little is when you're not being your truest self. Be yourself and don't put yourself down for being unique.

 

We have this preconceived notion of what being little is supposed to look like, what it's supposed to feel like, what it is. Don't push yourself into that box. You can take that box and burn it and then dance on the ashes if you want, as long as that is something you want to do ♥

 

If you have any questions feel free to message me I'd love to talk to you.

[Lilkitten12]

I don’t think I enter little space either. Being little just seems to be tied into my regular personality- so like the others said, as long as you are being True to yourself and doing what you enjoy I wouldn’t beat yourself up about it or feel as if you aren’t truly a little.

Certain things trigger me to feel more little or more submissive than I normally would—my Daddy’s tone of voice, spankings, diapers and pacies, etc. but as far as all the nonsexual stuff—cartoons, coloring, and things of that nature- I don’t find I change much at all. I would color or act silly with my vanilla friends just as quickly as I would my little friends. I like what cuppy said “you are valid.” Those are strong words- just the act of you being you is what makes you your own unique little.

[Guest lovebug1988]

just because you dont regress, doesnt mean your a bad little, alot of littles dont regress and thats ok, as long as your ok with who you are, then just be yourself, there is no right or wrong way to be a little

[babyarabella<3]

Maybe your ‘little space’ isn’t an entirely separate thing from you who are, maybe it’s just a part of your regular personality!! Try not to chase like a transformation and just enjoy the things you enjoy, you’re very much just as valid and little as anybody else!!

 

Wish you the best ~<3

[Lola Step]

I find that the timed I am most little are when I'm completely relaxed and even then it doesn't happen like the flip of a switch big to little, it happens gradually like getting sleepy, and even when i do feel completely little it isn't that much of a transformation, sometimes i don't even know I've done it until Daddy starts being extra cute then I know I must be acting little So my main piece of advice if just keep doing what makes you happy, there is no right way