adult playful in littlespace?

[theotherone]

I go into littlespace because I find it relaxing. After awhile I just start feeling playful, adult playful. Is that a comman thing?

[Guest TheLittlestMouse]

Everyone is different in their little space! Some are sexual and others are non sexual. Just depends on the little! ^.^~

[Little Illy]

I do sometimes and I don't. There is no wrong way or right way, there is only what works for you. I call it 'play time' when I feel that way when I'm in a little headspace. 

 

Just do what feels natural for you. Realize some people wont like it but some definitely will. Don't try to change who you are because people might say its not "normal." There isn't a Normal Hand Guide for being little. What is normal is what is natural for each little.

[MrJohnny]

So you are having fun and feeling relaxed and then you begin to want the fun to be more adult in its expression?

 

Sounds normal enough to me. Littles are adults, before and after being littles. I am not a little myself, but I assume that littles spend the majority of their lives in adult space, and the unmet needs felt there make little space the comfort that it can be. I know from experience that the fulfillment this dynamic provides also, in turn, empowers my Vanilla life.

 

So I think there is actually a sort of Power Exchange working there as well when my Vanilla self yields a measure of control to my dynamic. Each aspect of my life empowers the other. In the same way that always present in a little's adult life is another dynamic wanting to be expressed, I believe also that within a little's dynamic remains the potential for some adult expression also.

 

Otherwise, we would be clinically schizophrenic.

 

I completely agree with the other replies above, however, that the only valid definition of "normal" is what is normal for you. And even that can be changeable depending on what needs are not being met in either aspect of life, and the degree to which these unmet needs are felt. The only "normal" human behavior is that we all seek to have our needs met. How we go meeting those needs is as individual as we are.

Edited December 31, 2017 by MrJohnny

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[Guest pacibrat]

Like previously said, it just depends on the little.  There's nothing wrong with being a sexual little just like there's nothing wrong with being a non-sexual little.  I'm a sexual little because that's what has always felt right for me.  There are places on the internet (not here) where non-sexual littles are highly judgmental of sexual littles.  If you come across that, ignore it. We are who we are and when it comes down to it, we are all consenting adults doing what feels natural for us.

[Lilkitten12]

^^totally agree with paci- I am a sexual little as well. There is nothing wrong with it- same way there is nothing wrong with being a non sexual little. Before I joined the forum I honestly didn’t even realize there were people that lived the dynamic without the sexual side to it. As long as everyone is safe, of age, and consenting I like to keep an open, nonjudgmental mind because I don’t like being judged for my kinks. Live and let live.