Is it ok for the dom to be vulnerable sometimes?

[Chlorinefather]

Yes son

[Guest SIFUTHEWOLF]

Yes

[shypricessmermaidgin]

If you're not vulnerable, how can we truly get to know you? How can I truly fall in love with you, if you're not as vulnerable as mes, in the relationships? How can I trys to make you feel betters if I don't knows? Why do we as humans equipped with vulnerability with being bads? 

[KnownToYou]

I hate that this is something people feel, including myself.

Everyone has times to be vulnerable and I hope we all find someone who is okay and helps us through those times.

 

That being said, I've definitely been in relationships where it's felt like I can't, and if you feel the same way, you're probably better off getting out of it.

 

Cheers

[beanbean]

lol Doms are people too and of course there vulnerable ,and thats  good think if rhey were not it would be mighty hard to relate to your subs

[tangible~ soul]

Absolutely! I could not be with a Dominant or Daddy that does not have this attribute. Vulnerability shows that we are human. We have a soft side, we can be hurt under that outer crunchy hard shell. I see vulnerability as natural innocence as well. I also feel that when we are in a healthy relationship, vulnerability shows that we can let our guard down and trust just a little bit at a time. I could go on and on but all the other wonderful posts here express most of what I want to say anyway.

Beautiful evening to you,

tangible~

[The RealDaddyCat]

Yes it is if you think different well SMH. I had someone question my Dom status because I was emotional when my father passed.

[Little kaiya]

11 hours ago, The RealDaddyCat said:

Yes it is if you think different well SMH. I had someone question my Dom status because I was emotional when my father passed.

Whoever did that to you is just an iidiot. 

[Shinigami]

I'm a CG who suffered with mental health for a very long time. Part of the reason I enjoy my role atleast in the way it works for me, is more about praise and strict ruling. My princess is special, takes care of me and outside of her bratty spouts is a very good girl. I don't always like being strict and at times can even distance myself from things that would normally better my mentality. She knows when I'm not feeling like I'm at my best, and holds no gripes about it. Doms can only live in the mindset for so long before it grips parts of you that in my opinion if you weren't completely detached renders you vulnerable anyways. So yes. You are allowed to be exposed as this is a bond, just be sure you're open to your little/partner/sub whatever they maybe to you, as understanding is what honestly makes the whole thing work.

[Little Becca]

Yes. It is 100% ok. It strengthens the bond. 

[HannibalLittle]

Do you actually mean the Dom/me or do you mean the Daddy? Cuz those are not synonyms and I feel like you think they are. 

 

Daddys can be subs. I am a little but I'm a domme. And I can be vulnerable and so can they. This isn't play acting it's two humans having a genuine relationship and in genuine relationships both people occasionally DO have emotions and nonsense that gets them upset. Like I don't really get certain types of emotions but I do get bad anxiety. And having a Daddy who understands and appreciates the sensitivities that come w that is just as important as me coming to terms w whatever mental health or interpersonal issues they might have. Cuz humans have issues. And we're all flipping humans.