confusion

[LilchubBash]

why does a daddy get to make rules hm?

[Guest SUeB]

He only gets to make rules if he's with someone that WANTS rules.

[allyamazing]

I'm with SUeB - if you don't want to have rules then your daddy should accept that. If I was you I would talk to him clearly about that (it's all about communication!) and if he would insist on setting rules for me even thought I told him that this doesn't work for me I would get the hell away from him. Because in my point of view that would be not only restricting  and surpressing me but also disrespecting me as person.

 

Just talk to your daddy about what you want and if he doesn't respect your self-determined decision then think about if you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you enough to care about your will.

[Guest SUeB]

I'm with SUeB - if you don't want to have rules then your daddy should accept that. If I was you I would talk to him clearly about that (it's all about communication!) and if he would insist on setting rules for me even thought I told him that this doesn't work for me I would get the hell away from him. Because in my point of view that would be not only restricting and surpressing me but also disrespecting me as person.

 

Just talk to your daddy about what you want and if he doesn't respect your self-determined decision then think about if you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you enough to care about your will.

i personally didn't read this as someone talking about her own situation. More a stereotypical view of ddlg thing. As though it's something ALL daddies do.

[Guest DaddyFitzwell]

So I'm very new here, my first post actually, and have been researching a lot and have to say I didn't think there was a set thing about rules. The basics I have put together so far though is that communication is everything and that there is a responsibility for both involved. Please correct me if wrong but little is responsible to please her daddy and Daddy is responsible to make his little happy so she wants to please him. Once again I am new so that is my best interpretation so far.

[GeekyPastry]

Daddy doesn't make the rules. Daddy AND the Little/Middle/ect makes the rules. Just like in any relationship that involves rules, both parties make the rules.