Telling my husband

[Panda princess ballerina]

I have tried to tell my husband many times, but he just doesn't "get it." Usually I'm just little at home alone, while doing some little things around him, but I can't be 100% little with him just yet. I'm not sure the best way to explain that I want him to be my Daddy, even though most of the time he acts like my Daddy anyway. Any advice and help is appreciated.

[sullenDaddybones]

Don't push it... I had people that were Little/Submissive and people that were Mommyish/Dominant and I was too ignorant of the subject to know what was going on but like the dance of life I went along with it. You don't need to name a thing you just need to experience it C: and know in your heart hey, "I am with my Master/Mistress/Daddy/Dominant/King/Prince/etc.........."

 

it makes it no more beautiful does it?

[Guest Ignea]

Hi ..

 

You say in your post he "doesnt get it", but he acts like your Daddy anyway ,  sounds a little weird.

Did you explain him clearly how you feel, what your wishes/desires/needs are.  Tried to talk with him in a open way, or is he not interested at all.

I can imagine its hard to explain it to your husband, specialy when your just or not for that long know what it is and means for you.

 

Open communication is usualy the best way, just the timing of bringing the subject is essential to.

Just be open and honest and it might be easier, also , listen to his desires/wishes , needs.

 

If he ignores it or doesnt want to have any interest in it the problem is bigger, if he doesnt know what to do with i thenits a lot easier , with a good talk can fix a whole bit.