Being little and living with parents

[Guest LittleMuse]

Hi~

 

I am a middle who hasn't really explored little space due to the fact that I still live with my parents and they are around 24/7. I can get away with baby talk because that's a part of my personality and they are used to it but I don't know about anything else.

 

I was wondering, anyone else are in a similar situation: how you spend time in you little space (middle space ) or what are your 'middle' accessories?

 

Thank you~

[Guest dapperton]

     Hi! I, for example, have a little box of things that make me feel little (middle in your case) that my parents may not understand why I have those but I also have things all over my room, that they won't care to see bc its "normal", that also makes me feel little; like posters, books, clothe, stuffies, etc.      

[Guest pacibrat]

I don't live with my parents but I do live with my son and my sister.  I cannot be openly little in my home.  There are little things that are normal for grownups too. For example, bubble baths, bath fizzies and coloring books (buy adult coloring books.......I mean, they're for adults so nobody can say anything). If you get a paci or other little stuff just keep it tucked away somewhere in your room that nobody will find it.  I'm sure you're alone at night in your room.  If you want discreet mail, go open a PO Box at your local post office if you can.  Little snacks like fruit snacks can be for grownups too, even the cartoon shaped ones.  Little me also loves hot chocolate with marshmallows and candy (also normal for adults too).  I love things like Hello Kitty and cute things so nobody finds it odd for me to have things with Hello Kitty, etc. on it. Also, grownups watch Disney movies too.  A cute throw blanket can be your blankie and nobody knows but you (I even have a pink Minnie Mouse one at work because they know I like girly and cute stuff too).  Cute pens and desk stuff are also an option.  Just some ideas. 

[Ashybear]

I still live with my parents and I know this might sound weird or awkward but I told my parents about being a little. I keep my stuffies and little accessories out or up in places that they aren't exactly hidden. They think it's weird, but they accept it. It was weird to tell them, but now I can be in my little space without hiding it. My mom even plays with me and laughs with me. For christmas they get me stuffies and stuff like that.

[Whippedcreamfrosting]

I'm 18 and really as long as I keep it confined to my room its okay. I wear like pastel grunge stuff fairly regularly and i watch cartoons a lot. I'm nymphet, so most of them are dirty or the older cartoons from the 90s and early 2000s so my dad doesn't see it as odd.

 

I don't take my little mindset with me because it's really scary for me, but I also switch in and out like a lightbulb, so idk. I just sort of let my surrpindjngs and comofrt level guide me. If youre not comfoetable being littlw where it isnt private, DONT PUSH IT. You dkmt want to taint it or scare yoir little self. I know my little swlf is not even close tk brave.

 

I think it's easy to have littlespace where your things are separated from adult and little/middle. It's like a game of hide and seek, but not suppression. For me, because my bf lives 70 miles away, I don't get to be with him often but I sort of separate myself from it when we aren't talking and or together and when he calls me- bam! Littlespace instantly. It's about separation. It helps having adult responsibilities though, to help you easily move around life: parents, jobs, dating/ddlg.

Edited December 27, 2017 by Whippedcreamfrosting

[Guest Babycee]

I moved back home with my parents as I finish up school and plan my next step and I haven't directly told them I'm a little, but they already knew it was part of me. I only got questions or looks as I decorated my room and brought home more sippy's or little things. My room literally looks like a 5 year old decorated it and speaks enough for itself>< I'm over the stage of hiding it from others and keeping my things in a box under my bed...although I'm not hiding it, i'm definitely not going into details about it since I don't think they need to know everything.

[ladybug°rain]

I live with my guardian and sisters. One time I found some of my littles sisters old binkys and cleaned them and started using them. My guardian found out about them and that I was into ddlg and made me throw the binkys away. She said it was disgusting and when I tried to explain ddlg isn't what she thinks it is she said 'of course it is! What else would it be!?' The disgust on her face was awful.

 

However, I still have binkys hidden under my pillow but inside the pillow case since she didn't know about every one that I had. Watching little kid shows, having stuffed animals, drinking from the older kid version of a sippy, and wearing a crown are just who I am. Even though they give me crap about it it's normal for me. For my binkys though, I don't bring those out unless I'm home alone, in bed, or late at night when I'm watching TV.

 

I have a big fuzzy winter hat that puts me in little space whoever I am. My beauty and the beast shirts and new pusheen cat skirt also puts me in little space.

 

I wish you the best of luck!

Edited December 27, 2017 by lottles

[angelbabyaf]

it is difficult for me still living with my parents as well!! i am alone in my room at night, so if im going to be little then thats the time that i normally let myself be little. or when theyre at church or at work i can get away with it for a little bit.

 

i have a few pacifiers and some sippy cups, and i hide them in a spot in my room. it can be tricky because my parents are snoopy even though im 19, so its a little weird but?

 

i have stuffies and coloring books that theyre fine with! i have little kid coloring books because theyre simpler, adult coloring books just dont do it for me, but an easy excuse would be that they are a lot less complex because some of that stuff in adult coloring books i dont quite know what to do with

 

babytalk is kinda hard to get away with sometimes but it also just depends on how your little self acts, and how different it is from your big self.

 

good luck with the whole thing because it can be tricky <3

[Guest LittleMuse]

it is difficult for me still living with my parents as well!! i am alone in my room at night, so if im going to be little then thats the time that i normally let myself be little. or when theyre at church or at work i can get away with it for a little bit.

i have a few pacifiers and some sippy cups, and i hide them in a spot in my room. it can be tricky because my parents are snoopy even though im 19, so its a little weird but?

i have stuffies and coloring books that theyre fine with! i have little kid coloring books because theyre simpler, adult coloring books just dont do it for me, but an easy excuse would be that they are a lot less complex because some of that stuff in adult coloring books i dont quite know what to do with

babytalk is kinda hard to get away with sometimes but it also just depends on how your little self acts, and how different it is from your big self.

good luck with the whole thing because it can be tricky <3

It's not weird that your family snoops lol

My family is really close so they like walk into my room all the time (knocking doesn't exist in my family) and they go through my stuff. Hiding things in a box or under my pillow just isn't an option haha

 

I probably just have to slowly figure out other things that make me feel little which aren't too obvious.

 

Thanks!

[DottiM]

I recently graduated and I’m still living with a parent. Some things aren’t too bad, I’ve always had stuffed animals so It’s not a big deal that I still have some. One is even 6’5” so there’s no hiding that. Things like kids snacks, movies and childish nik naks I can get away with no problem. However I keep more sensitive things like my paci and onesies hidden and locked away just in case.

[princesskristan]

I live with my dad and it's hard. I get yelled at sometimes because I watch cartoons and I've been told to get rid of my stuffies, but I'm not. It's hard, but I keep it in my room, and when I'm alone, I can go all out when I'm in little space

[babyarabella<3]

I don’t live at home any more but for me I focused on “big passing” little things! Anything people wouldn’t look twice at but for me, it was a little item.

 

For example a popular shop in the UK called primark sells a lot of Disney and Harry Potter pyjamas so my pyjamas would always be Disney or Harry Potter themed, my parents even bought these for me at Christmas and still do! I had Winnie the Pooh bedding from the same store too because it suddenly become really fashionable and nobody really took any notice!

 

I used my bed throw as a blanket and kept a pacifier in my school bag so it was never left alone without me for them to find.

 

Movies and cartoons were a great way for me to be in little space too, I’d watch a lot of Disney, Shrek, Madagascar movies and then I’d always watch old Nickelodeon and Disney tv shows like Lizzie McGuire and Drake and Josh etc.

 

I saved certain foods for little space like cheese strings, little crackers, cute cut up pieces of fruit, juice pouches, mac and cheese, chocolate lollies (especially the ones wrapped in my little pony foil)

 

Also try having some kiddy apps on your phone/tablet or just googling some on your laptops! For actual kid toys you can have colouring books (adult kinds if your parents will be really suspicious), felt tips, you can scrapbook or journal and add adorable stickers and ribbons etc.

 

There really is a lot of options, you just have to get creative!

[Guest RocketCatRocketCat]

Yah, I still live with my parents sadly

But, I like to hide in my room in the closet with my stuffies and sometimes a paci

[klerido]

You haven't found a loving daddy yet? Maybe after a year or when you're already finished with your studies, you can tell your parents that you want to try how it is to be independent.