Expections for a Daddy?

[Guest starsandlove]

Merry Christmas Eve!

 

I’ve been lost on what I should expect from my daddy. I’m well aware of expectations on Little’s and more specifically, what he wants from me.

 

What are realistic and healthy expectations I should have for my Daddy?

 

MORE SPECIFICALLY: for my LDR Daddy.

 

Because times like holidays get tough, and I’m feeling alone but I know he has family time just like I do. So in order to ask my Daddy for me to not feel so… disconnected, I’d love to know what general expectations are held for all/LDR Daddies.

 

(He makes me incredibly happy but I have a lot of mental illness issues and I’m not coping)

 

Thanks for reading!!!

 

(Ps I am not doubting this guy at all I want to marry him. I’ve never been in any relationship so I don’t really know basic boyfriend qualities I deserve. I promise I’m not trying to be snooty- I adore my Daddy and he treats me so nicely most of the time......... and I think he’s wonderful!)

[neko]

There is no "How-To" guide on what you should expect from a Daddy. My expectations are not your expectations.

[neko]

I mean there's basic stuff like "communicate" "don't be rude" but thise are common sense

[MrJohnny]

You can really only expect from your Daddy what he has committed to give you/be for you. And he can only do that when you have (respectfully) communicated to him what those things are. It does not "just happen", you have to work it out. All relationships require A LOT of communication and patience, but especially the DDlg dynamic because of the depth of the needs being addressed. So keep talking ...

[DeepMango]

It is good to lay out your expectations of each other. Morning and good night texts? Communication every day or? Video chatting each night? Story time? (When our relationship was LDR I would read to my lg each night until she fell asleep). Hope this helps. Edited December 25, 2017 by DeepMango