Guest Sae Posted June 10, 2015 Report Posted June 10, 2015 Not as a 'daddy' or a 'guy'. But I honestly think you might need a more mature out look. DDlg doesn't need kinky sex. And how do most people bring up sex? They talk about it. You might wanna grow up a bit, and open up the doors to communication. Communication doesn't hurt. Try it. 1
Kakashi Posted June 10, 2015 Report Posted June 10, 2015 Yeah, talking is key i found out when my little called me daddy for the first time during sex, we talked about it and i got interested. being a "Daddy" can be a lot of stress, my little & i both suffer from severe depression & me being the guy she looks to & needs when she's feeling down is hard i often have to stonewall my own shit to take care of her first. But that's just something you have to do because little's when they're in little space or really in general need all the love care & affection they can get.
princessbabykoala Posted June 10, 2015 Report Posted June 10, 2015 Yeah, I wouldn't really say this is a relationship problem. Certainly for me and my Daddy, it wasn't something we just walked right into - we both researched the dynamic and discussed how it would fit into our relationship if we were to pursue it. I can't really say how it was/is for others, but sex isn't something I take lightly as a little since it can leave me feeling vulnerable and exposed and so it takes a lot of trust for me to be able to partake in BDSM activities with a partner. Also, I'm not trying to attack you here, but the way you phrased your question seems like you don't really understand DD/lg. Like Sae said, it isn't kinky sex - for many it is a lifestyle and as a little and a female your question comes across as being a 'how do I make girls do this' which it shouldn't be. It needs to be a decision made by both partners equally and if your partner's limits/interests don't cover this then you need to accept it or talk to them further, explaining why you need this in your relationship 1
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