Lost my Daddy

[Trissy Day]

So, I just joined this forum because I'm in a bit of a rough spot and need some words of encouragement.  I just left the first man who ever took ddlg seriously in our relationship.  He was the best daddy ever from the beginning, but towards the end he start prioritizing other things over my little space.  And little space started to stress him out.  Well, since I have left him I've been entirely codependent on going out with friends and distracting myself, but there's still that hole in my heart.  The fact that I don't have anyone to cuddle me or rub my back or eat ice cream with... I don't know what to do, I'm in a bit of a funk and any advice will help..

-Day Kitten fighter of the Night Kitten, Champion of The Sun, Master of Karate and Friendship for Everyone.

[Guest SUeB]

Time. That's literally the only thing. It hurts, of course it does. But it's just part of the journey.

The first always hits us hard. Once i was with someone that said he was a daddy. But it was all an act, born from his own insecurities. Lasted ten months. It broke me for quite a while. Or rather, i FELT broken. And i have two divorces behind me, lol. But because this was the first time i had a relationship within this lifestyle, it hurt in a whole different way.

But yep, it passed. It's a process. Just go through it.

[Guest Jester]

Break ups are hard anyway but this dynamic we live seems to always make them harder.

 

There is nothing I can say other than one day you will wake and not think about your daddy and go to slep and not dream about him. On that day you will have made it through this difficult time and will be starting the next chapter.

 

In the meantime, stay strong and take each dayas it comes.

[Rebel]

Sorry, just had to say I laughed at the Always Sunny reference.

[Daddy4babygirls]

Trissy, if you need to talk, let Me know. I have no one and also need a little to talk too!

[MrJohnny]

Heartbroken for you. Breakups just suck.