prettylilpiglette Posted December 16, 2017 Report Posted December 16, 2017 (edited) Hi, N'dea! I'm sorry to hear about this unfortunate spat, coincidentally I am in the same boat as you, and I'm probably a terrible advice giver.. but I'll try to help! All it should take is communication. If he's not responding to you in little space, try taking initiative in big space and explain to him why you might have been acting a certain with him. Maybe then, he will soften up. It's hard to predict decipher whether or not he's busy or is just punishing you; but also take time to reflect on your own behavior just in case, there's always two sides :-) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀( ) ( ) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀/( ᴼㅅᴼ ❀ )\ - Best wishes! ⠀⠀ BunBunn Edited December 16, 2017 by daddysgoodbunn
Guest pacibrat Posted December 16, 2017 Report Posted December 16, 2017 You need to talk to him as an adult and establish that ignoring you as "punishment" is NEVER okay. This kind of treatment is unfair to a little because we need a steady, DEPENDABLE caregiver. 2
PrincessNdea Posted December 16, 2017 Author Report Posted December 16, 2017 Hey Sweet Lil Princess, thanks for your comment Too. I don’t think daddy trying to be to unjust, he’s new to being a daddy too and I’m pretty clingy but I hear what you’re saying. It really doesn’t help when he ignores me and then I feel worse off than I finally
Mikaitaku Posted December 16, 2017 Report Posted December 16, 2017 If he is getting upset at small things that is a cause for concern. Anger at trivial things is a red flag 2
PrincessNdea Posted December 16, 2017 Author Report Posted December 16, 2017 Thanks Wilderness for the post! And I’m not sure; it’s not so much small things every once in awhile it’s literally me starting it every day
PrincessNdea Posted December 16, 2017 Author Report Posted December 16, 2017 Thanks Wilderness for the post! And I’m not sure; it’s not so much small things every once in awhile it’s literally me starting it every day
princessfreckles Posted December 19, 2017 Report Posted December 19, 2017 You definitely need to step away from little space and talk to him. I agree that ignoring you is not an appropriate punishment at all. Also, establishing rules is helpful. My last bit of advice is making sure that you're both on the same page in terms of what you want from him as a caregiver, and what he wants from you as a little. Be as transparent and honest as possible.
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