Need Help please :)

[Pretty_Lady]

Hi, My partner and I are both very new to this community, we were introduced to it all by a fellow "Little Girl" friend. So we are just starting to figure it all out in regards to our relationship and what it means for us. We have been working on names for each other, Mine has been settled on "Pretty Lady". We are having lots of trouble trying to think of one for them. What makes this so hard is that my partner isn't interested in age-play, so words like "Daddy" are off the table. What makes it EVEN more challenging is that my partner is a Non-Binary person, meaning they don't identify as a male or female person, they are neither. so words like "Sir, Mister, Ma'am," or anything that denotes a specific gender is also off the table, so does anyone have any tips for this little Lady?

[Guest Georgia-Daddy2]

Caregiver is the best I got for your situation.

[Wolfycheeks]

YOUR HIGHNESS.

[Guest Ally_cat]

- Puddin

- Love

- Teddy

- Soulmate

- Big

[prettylilpiglette]

^{Something like 'Master' would work easily? Or 'Your Majesty" (like 'Your Highness, stated above)..}

"Great One", "Your Royalty", "Paramour", My Betrothed" are all decent ones I could think of.

 

^{Perhaps even incorporating cute animals that remind you of them into words of endearment like}

^{"BooBear", but .. more dominating, like "Master Bear" (sorry, heckin bad at this lol)}

[Guest JayRingo77]

Instead of a title consider a different first name?  Or perhaps titles from government: Senator, Caesar, Chancellor.

 

It's a unique challenge.  Have fun with it!

[Pretty_Lady]

So we decided to go with "Dommy", to imply Dominance, but also it is a wonderfully gender neutral word as it looks like a combined version of Daddy and Mommy. Thanks for everyone's help in this, and I hope this post helps someone else in the future. 

[Guest SUeB]

Can you not just use their name? Titles don't make the relationship.

[Pretty_Lady]

The reason we chose not to use our names is because we separate our lives between the day to day stuff, and our DD/LG moments, which tend to have a bit more of a sexual or flirtatious connotation to them. Thus the titles help us separate the two. Plus we both find it really attractive when we have this secret name for each other.

[Persephone_Persephone]

Their name. You really dont need special names at all. Nothing more special then having your name called by your partner in my opinion.

 

Failling this something that actually means something to them. Like my ex used to call me 'shortness'or 'little ghost' because I'm short and pale. It worked for us!

I cant do all the pretentious names like Highness or princess I feel daft. So do what works for you guys.

[Guest SUeB]

Is there any reason you feel you need to separate the different aspects of your relationship? Sure,i myself call Him by different titles depending on the moment. Daddy, Master, His actual name. But not because we feel any need to do that. It's all the same relationship. More like that we just use different names. Such as "love" and "darling" etc. There is no separation between our relationship dynamics. And each of those are sexual for us, as we are sexually active as a couple. Of course everyone is different, and i am not suggesting you are doing anything wrong, or that we should all do things the same. Just wondering why you feel that need.

[Pretty_Lady]

While my partner and I are both very interested and committed to the DD/LG part of our relationship, we are also switches, so there are moments when I am more dominant and they are more submissive, those are the moments when we are less sexual and more flirty and cute. And perhaps “Separate” isn’t the right term, I just meant that the DD/LG names help us determine the mood that we are both in, for example: if I wake up and text them “Goodmorning Love” it means cute and sweet, but if I wake up feeling horny I will text “Good Morning Dommy”. I hope this makes sense....

[Guest SUeB]

Ok, fair enough. i guess we all have our different ways of communicating certain things. To be fair if i were horny, i would just say so, hehe. But ok, i think i see what you're saying.