Rewards and Punishments!~funishments, ideas, charts, etc.

[daddy1992]

Chore Monster is the best! I used it with my little one a couple of times but we sadly have to stop it for now cause we both got a lot on and it was getting a little hard to keep track. We will get back on it one day but i can say that Chore Monster is one of the best! good luck.

[Guest MrHoneyPaw]

Wow! Thanks for this, I'm so sure this will be helpful for me and my Little. Thank you, thank you and thank you!

[DaddyJ88]

Hi everyone!

 

My little recently completed her most recent good girl chart and we thought it worked out so well we'd share it with you all. Currently, once she fills up her good girl chart she gets her hundredth sticker on her Extra Special Good Girl Chart which she and I made together when she came over for her visit, I'm sure I'll get a picture of that up eventually.

 

 

But since she's done so well and finished this chart off and we're in the Christmas season, we've just made this (well, I made it with some stern, no-nonsense design input from the little miss when I strayed too far from the brief!) festive chart:

 

 

If you've got any charts of your own, festive or otherwise, feel free to share, I am always on the lookout for good new ideas!

(p.s. can anyone guess I only have star-shaped stickers at the moment. Also, you earn yourself a point if you can figure out the cryptic and well-hidden theme amongst our charts at the moment.)

 

J.

Edited December 10, 2017 by DaddyJ88

[Lilkitten12]

[daddy1992]

Wooo! This is great. My little is still working hard on her good girl chart. 
This is why us Daddys/Mummys/caregivers get proud! 

[daddy1992]

Hello Everyone! 

I already got a Reward chart for my little one. I don't have much. If anyone out on the forum can help me with adding new ways to reward my little one. This would be great. 

- P 

[MyPinkyPillow]

What do you have so far?

[Guest Arc]

You could get her a new stuffie, new colouring in book, or new pencils or crayons. You could take her out somewhere she loves - maybe out for a milkshake or to a movie. You could buy her candy, or some cheap trinkets or jewellery. Or you could let her stay up a little later than her bed time one night to watch movies with her. Basically it really depends on what your little likes. Everyone is different. You also didn't say if you are a LDR or not, which also changes things. 

 

For me, my main reward is candy. I'm not allowed it normally, so it's quite a simple reward for small things. If I've studied really hard for an exam and done well, I get to go out late to a movie and stay up up to two hours past my bed time (so long as I dont have an early class the next day). For bigger things Daddy normally lets me choose, and I usually choose to go out for a treat or to dinner. Sometimes he gives me small things he's made himself, which are my favourite. He made me a necklace a few months ago and it's still my most treasured thing ever  

[daddy1992]

You could get her a new stuffie, new colouring in book, or new pencils or crayons. You could take her out somewhere she loves - maybe out for a milkshake or to a movie. You could buy her candy, or some cheap trinkets or jewellery. Or you could let her stay up a little later than her bed time one night to watch movies with her. Basically it really depends on what your little likes. Everyone is different. You also didn't say if you are a LDR or not, which also changes things. 

 

For me, my main reward is candy. I'm not allowed it normally, so it's quite a simple reward for small things. If I've studied really hard for an exam and done well, I get to go out late to a movie and stay up up to two hours past my bed time (so long as I dont have an early class the next day). For bigger things Daddy normally lets me choose, and I usually choose to go out for a treat or to dinner. Sometimes he gives me small things he's made himself, which are my favourite. He made me a necklace a few months ago and it's still my most treasured thing ever

Thanks for that. this really helped. i got pretty much most of what you said and i love a hour away from my little. Just wanted to see what other people do and stuff. thanks so much for taking the time and answering  

[Guest DeathSquadBrat]

Stickers

DIY projects

Plants

Cute socks

Slippers

Bows

Ribbon

Movies

If she has a bed time- extend one night it as a reward

Daddy dates

Bake cupcakes or cookies with her

High fives for small tasks

Extra loves

Dollar store shopping spree

 

Idk these are all things I like

[PrincessNdea]

My Daddy and me have just recently started this new shift in our relationship of adding DDLG to it, if that makes sense! I’ve been little for a while but Daddy new to it; we just decided to start laying down some rules for me, so I was just wondering what kind of rules are typical for Little’s? I know use little are all different by what are some basic ideal rules for Littles?

[shadowrider]

You can check out the link below and I think it will give you some good ideas and then you can tailor them to suit the 2 of you.

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2210-what-are-your-rules/?hl=rules

[neko]

Don't create rules just because you feel like you SHOULD have them.

 

If you can't think of your own rules maybe you're not ready to have them yet.

 

To each their own though.

[JackOfSomeTrades]

I agree that you should not set rules just for the sake of having rules.

 

If you *want* rules because you think they will help you in some way, then certainly go for it! And if you do that, certainly rules that you see others use can be good inspiration, but again, they should be useful to you and your Daddy.

[Guest SUeB]

Rules ought to be between you and your partner. We don't know either of you, so can't suggest anything that might work for you.

[Cutelilchubber]

So I'm in a long distance relationship and my daddy hasn't really given me,any rules, I'm a little too shy to ask him for and more. Does anyone know any good rewards punishments and rules we could use?

[Future]

Omg I struggle with ldr

I don’t really set many rules myself as I find it quite restricting and time consuming.

 

But it is essential that you discuss this with him as you matter and your needs need to be considered.

But also generic rules etc may not suits so it’s worth figuring out the best for your situation.

[Guest Prat]

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12632-cgl-over-distance/?p=68819%27%5DCgl

 

Try this for some ideas. Mainly you should discuss it with your Daddy. If you want rules then tell him/her.

[Cutelilchubber]

[angelll]

hai!

 

my daddy is struggling to think of long distance punishments, does anyone have ideas?

 

he is also struggling to deal with brattiness, any tips?

[ladybug°rain]

I've had to write sentences and I've lost sweets before. You can be grounded from any electronic, and if you guys video chat I've heard that some daddy's make their littles spank themselves. There are more but some can be uniquely for you, depending on what you're in to.

[Guest JustACutiePie]

me and my daddy (were a new relationship) im not good at coming up with questions to ask so he makes me ask him questions (two clean and two dirty) , ive also with an old daddy do spankings on camera, writing lines, or i would be in time out sometimes he would supervise or he wouldnt talk to me for said time 

[cuppycakes]

Hello everyone! This is a mega-thread of all your Rewards and Punishments! List yours, gather ideas, post pictures of cute sticker charts, apps you use, everything! ♥

[Punkin_baby]

I favored you on etsy. I wike the headbands

 

I also wike that you have God in your name thingy in this post I quoted. I'm having trouble finding other Christian littles!

I'm a brand new little who is also Christian. Trying to navigate my ddlg life. I need little friends to talk to.

[Lola Step]

Looking at all of your charts makes me so happy, they're all so pretty! I wish my daddy would make me rules, he doesn't know I want them yet, so for now I self motivate by pretending he's there enforcing them (lame I know but....) which helps