new to dd/lg help please!!!!

[ddgingee]

My fiance is 6 years younger than me but possibly more experienced , got her to tell me she likes dd/lg, but I've never heard of it, I looked it up and it fits me to the t, I am provider, protected, caregiver, and she is my world, how should I start this, I. Not huge on being dominant but I can be firm, any advil how I should begin this journey?? Thanks

[A Cuddly Dom]

I really need to make a master post about this one day. My recommendation is to visit dominantlife on Tumblr, make sure your safe search is off, and find his Library for Kinksters. Read every article there. Brew some coffee, snuggle up with your partner, read and discuss each article together.

 

Then, have a series of open, honest talks about what you are both interested in, what rules to begin with, aftercare, hard and soft limits, and set some easy goals to work towards together.

 

Take it slow at first. Give yourselves time to get a feel for what works and what doesn't. Keep checking in with each other at regular intervals. Communicate, communicate, communicate!

 

If you have any further questions or concerns, feel free to PM me. Best wishes to you both!

 

-ACD

[Guest SUeB]

I really need to make a master post about this one day. My recommendation is to visit dominantlife on Tumblr, make sure your safe search is off, and find his Library for Kinksters. Read every article there. Brew some coffee, snuggle up with your partner, read and discuss each article together.

Then, have a series of open, honest talks about what you are both interested in, what rules to begin with, aftercare, hard and soft limits, and set some easy goals to work towards together.

Take it slow at first. Give yourselves time to get a feel for what works and what doesn't. Keep checking in with each other at regular intervals. Communicate, communicate, communicate!

If you have any further questions or concerns, feel free to PM me. Best wishes to you both!

-ACD

Tried looking this up, just to see if it's actually worth taking any notice of, and it's not accessible. All i can see on this guys tumblr is pics of naked chicks.

[Guest SUeB]

My fiance is 6 years younger than me but possibly more experienced , got her to tell me she likes dd/lg, but I've never heard of it, I looked it up and it fits me to the t, I am provider, protected, caregiver, and she is my world, how should I start this, I. Not huge on being dominant but I can be firm, any advil how I should begin this journey?? Thanks

Does she require to be dominated? Not all lg's do. But just take your time. Learn together. Ask each other questions, have fun, take it at your own pace.

And don't be afraid of messing up or admitting that you don't necessarily know what you are doing!

It's a relationship first and foremost. It's about communication, and being open and honest. Talk. Then talk more. Then when you think you've said everything.....keep talking, lol.

And do not take things you see anywhere online too seriously. There is a lot of "one true way" rubbish out there. Daddies aren't all the same. Lg's/subs are not all the same. This is your journey and your relationship. Ignore the "rules" and the checklists. Ask her what she actually wants, think about what you actually want. And start from there.

Edited December 5, 2017 by SUeB

[A Cuddly Dom]

Perhaps I can provide a link in PM. Tumblr is trying to hide people's content nowadays, but the library is still there. And yes, it's a kink blog, you're going to see some boobies