DDLG in Virtual Worlds [NSFW]

[ApolIo]

Hey everyone, new to this forum, loving every bit of it. A 25yr old American Daddy Dom. I’ll try to keep this short n sweet. I’ve been average vanilla joe for a long time until I came across DDLG with my exgirlfriend. We had a dull typical relationship we both knew was missing something. One night, steamy sex, missionary, and just as she was about to climax, in the spur of the moment, I asked her to “Cum for Me” and god, she hugged me, clung to me and orgasmed like never before and shouted “Yes, Daddy!” as soon as I heard it, it was like a flipped switched and I turned into a monster. Needless to say it was the dawn of a new lifestyle. For her it was a secret Daddy fetish but I began craving more until I found DDLG. Currently I travel a lot for work and so meeting girls of my type much less my kink have been difficult so I’ve turned to online relationships and finally came across Virtual Adult games such as RLC, IMVU and 3DxChat (by far the best) and started meeting a wide variety of BDSM lovers and others of all sorts but not many into DDLG.

 

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So I’m wondering for those who have long distance relationships, who are into virtual games or just into DDLG how has your experience been and how do you feel about virtual games in DDLG dynamic?

[Kittaye]

I used to used IMVU and had a pretty fun fun with my Domme and my friend and her Daddy it was fun being able to hangout with other littles virtually and we all skyped eventually but things didn't work out too well I'm pretty sure

[Guest Dulci]

I found out about DDLG through Secondlife many years ago; not sure what the scene is like on there anymore, but it was fun when I was into it  

[Wolfycheeks]

Most people I know are not into DDLG just because their partner called them Daddy one night. For them it's the desire to have a relationship where they have a nurturing and guiding role, and want to provide a learning environment and stability. It looks like what you're describing is just a Daddy kink, and not specifically anything DDLG related, besides ageplay perhaps? Try looking for people who love ageplay or roleplay? Good luck!

[ApolIo]

Most people I know are not into DDLG just because their partner called them Daddy one night. For them it's the desire to have a relationship where they have a nurturing and guiding role, and want to provide a learning environment and stability. It looks like what you're describing is just a Daddy kink, and not specifically anything DDLG related, besides ageplay perhaps? Try looking for people who love ageplay or roleplay? Good luck!

I’ll try to rephrase, the girl I was with at the time had a Daddy fetish perhaps ageplay but I was curious and interested in discovering more and as time went on I came across BDSM, Master/slave, Masochism/Sadism relationships although intriguing, even then there wasn’t enough affection and caregiving in what I found, until I found DDLG. Having a Master/pet yet a loving Daddy/littlegirl bond I found amazing and what I was looking for. My question was more towards holding the dynamic in the virtual setting for those long distance couples.

[pixiestixx]

I learned about ddlg and daddies and babygirls through Second Life and experienced a lot of it on there and through skype and kik just never out in the real world yet but really wanting to

[neko]

Most people I know are not into DDLG just because their partner called them Daddy one night. For them it's the desire to have a relationship where they have a nurturing and guiding role, and want to provide a learning environment and stability. It looks like what you're describing is just a Daddy kink, and not specifically anything DDLG related, besides ageplay perhaps? Try looking for people who love ageplay or roleplay? Good luck!

He didn't really go into detail about what he likes about DDLG so maybe stop making assumptions about what people want/like?

 

There's no right or wrong way to do DDLG.

Edited December 5, 2017 by neko

[neko]

I've heard quite a few stories of people meeting their daddy/little on second life or IMVU which surprised me!

[DreamingDesire]

He didn't really go into detail about what he likes about DDLG so maybe stop making assumptions about what people want/like?

 

There's no right or wrong way to do DDLG.

 

There's no need to be rude to Wolfy for "making assumptions" when they're just asking a question to potentially help the guy identify what he could be looking for. Especially because it could help with finding the most fitting virtual worlds.

 

It seems like there's small DDLG communities in all adult games, but I found it wasn't really for me. Yeah, you can actually look at some virtual characters interact awkwardly rather than just typing it out like you would online, but the interface/options to all those games is so clunky/limited, it'd cost less time to just visit your partner, regardless of where they are in the world.

Edited December 5, 2017 by DreamingDesire

[Kawaii]

I play second life and as of yet haven't found much for the DDLG side of things. A lot of that is because Linden (the creators) have a zero tolerance policy for using underage avatars in any adult rated space. Sadly too many people were going into BDSM areas with child-like avatars and it was causing lots of issues. I refuse to give up though lol. I did find some great adult rated ddlg items like furniture and etc and there's some great shops for clothes that work. 

 

Anyways good luck out there!