Anyone else feel like this...?

[Darlinglittlelo]

Hi everyone! My name is Loey and I'm pretty new to being active in the community. I've fallen into little space sporadically for a long time but haven't really identified myself as a "little" until recently. However, as I've lurked tumblr/fetlife/forums over the years I've gotten the impression that someone who's little tends to feel little 24/7 or at least most days, but I find that for me, there are sometimes weeks at a time when I don't go into little space at all...does anyone else do that? Does it just seem like it's all the time for other people since it's kind of a concentrated community? Also would it be bad for me to look for a daddy if I know there will be weeks when I wouldn't be able to fulfill his needs to be a daddy? I don't know if that makes sense but any responses would be appreciated!

[daddy1992]

Hello Loey,

That's completely normal. It isn't true that every little can be in little space 24/7. My little doesn't normal have it every min/hour in a day. it depends on what we are doing. sometime she doesn't get it for days/weeks. It's can also be hard to get into little space. So this isn't something you should overthink about. 

Hope this has answer your question

[Guest SUeB]

My littlespace is mostly displayed when with a particular kind of man. i have gone months without any of those feelings. And even with my Daddy, i don't always go there in my head. Sometimes it's more deeply sub, sometimes purely vanilla. Certainly not a 24/7 thing for me.

[Littlest_Bee]

Hello Loey and welcome.

 

While I usually do feel younger than I am, I don't really feel little most of the time either. It's complicated and I think every one of us has to find the right balance. There are differences. So concentrate on what's good for you.

 

 

At times of insecurity I sometimes try to remember François Lelord's book "Hector and the Search for Happiness". There's one quote that stood out especially to me:

>>Making comparisons can spoil your happiness.<<

 

Best wishes. ❤