hopeless and confused

[TheTrobuleSolver]

I have a girlfriend and me and she recently started dating but before we did she had told me about her little space stuff and she said to wait a few days do some research before we make it official. I told her its a bit much for me to jump in to, but I would be willing to learn I did ask her if it was sexual she said no. and I didn't see it as that big of a deal. I liked this girl a while and I still do. I'm just more concerned that I cant be the role that she needs. and she has said that it is not a need for me to be into it. but I really feel like I should try a bit before saying no. I do really like this girl and I'm quite nervous about all of this, I'm new to all of this entirely. and I don't want her to change for me

Edited December 3, 2017 by TheTrobuleSolver

[Guest SUeB]

So don't worry so much about it. She isn't pushing anything, and you don't really know how you feel about it. No problem. If you start to get to know each other, and you try to get involved with that and love it, great. If you try it and don't feel it's right for you, no problem. She said she doesn't need it. Either way, it could work or not, as is the case with any new relationship.

Stop over thinking, and see where it takes you both.

[Guest pacibrat]

Awwww, that's sweet that you want to learn about it for her.  Read up around here and see how you feel about the lifestyle.  It sounds like she just wanted you to be aware and see if you accept her for who she is (which it sounds like you do and that's precious).  It can be very hard for a little to talk about DDlg with someone who's never heard of it.  Since she doesn't need you to be a Daddy, don't worry over not filling that role for her.  Many littles don't need a 24/7 Daddy or even a Daddy at all.  You might also find that you'd like to explore a DDlg relationship together.

 

Oh, and so you don't get confused about what you read.......there are non-sexual littles and there are sexual littles. She's a non-sexual little, but you might come across threads here about sexual littles too.

[daddy1992]

That's fair enough hey, My relationship isn't sexual and being part of this community can be intense if you never done it before. Agree on doing lots of research. talk to some daddy's/Caregivers and we are happy give you some tips man. just give it time! hopefully this help. Always happy to talk more if you keen. good luck!