How does one get over a broken heart

[Noddy]

How does a daddy get over a broken heart at lossing his little

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

I know it sounds cliché. But time is always the best. There is no form or tip to make it faster. We have different times to heal our wounds. Give it time. Live your life, try to find some activities to keep yourself occupied. But above all, don't use another person to forget, it's not fair to anyone.

[Guest PianoPlayer]

If you're tempted to contact them, don't. Remove any reminders of them too. Right now you just want to focus on yourself. Find a new hobby, do something you've never done before. When your mind can focus on something else, it'll be easier

[Guest SUeB]

Time. Nothing else. No mind blowing words of wisdom, just going through the days one by one.

[DreamingDesire]

Same way anyone else does. Our brains are phenomenal at creating and holding patterns, especially when they are as emotional as someone we love. So right after a relationship, with everything you do, you'll find memories of that person in your habits and thoughts throughout the day, and remember the loss.

 

But over time, we learn that the person is truly gone. We build new, fresh habits and patterns that don't include this person, and the painful memories fade. That's why keeping yourself busy with other activities is the general recommendation. You'll be fine in the long run!

[Noddy]

The problem I have is that I know my little will be back she's been let down before she's meet a guy on tinder and the first time she did that the guy only used her and I'm worried that this other guy is going to do the same so it makes it harder

[DreamingDesire]

So she left you for someone else for the second time now? Even if she does come back, which is something you should never assume, what would guarantee the relationship goes well after that? This kinda comes across like you're being used.

[Noddy]

It's not like she asked my permission first has we were in a LDR

[Guest SUeB]

Is this all you're worth? Seriously? She has you dangling on a piece of thread. Either get some self respect and block her from your life, or carry on like this, miserable and used forever. Sorry to sound so harsh and blunt, but that's the simple fact.

[Guest JayRingo77]

Is this all you're worth? Seriously? She has you dangling on a piece of thread. Either get some self respect and block her from your life, or carry on like this, miserable and used forever. Sorry to sound so harsh and blunt, but that's the simple fact.

I have to agree.  While I'm sorry your heart aches, mend your spine so you can better protect your heart from this kind of abuse.  Consistently placing yourself in harm's way is not going to improve your quality of life.  Find something more nurturing before your heart is scarred and incapable of feeling love for another person.

[Guest Kaiser]

What the? Man, grow a pair.

[Guest Mister Grey]

I really do try and be constructive when I post but in this case

 

What the? Man, grow a pair.

 

I kinda have to agree

[Guest Plebian]

What the? Man, grow a pair.

 

Not much else to say other than that. Life should be about what you want first and foremost. You clearly did not set any boundaries and she is making good use of it.

 

Cut her off for good and figure out what your boundaries are. Write them down and stick to them.

[Guest Kaiser]

It's not even boundaries. The OP screwed up by taking her back in the first place.

 

Actually, he screwed up by creating an environment in which, 1) she stepped out in the first place, and 2) letting her know it was acceptable by taking her back.

 

OP...Here's the hard truth....You were never her Daddy, and you never will be. She used you. Right now, you're her White Knight and you're being cucked.

 

OP....You're in a cycle here. She's going to do this to you so long as you keep taking her back. Cut it off. Now. Lift, take classes at your local university. Improve yourself. Find your balls.

 

You won't listen though and 6 months from now, we'll see a similar post from you.