New little advice?

[Rahrah]

Hey so I'm very new into the cg/l community and I feel as though I'm  kinda stumbling blindly through my experience so far..... Is there any advice any other little have that could help me or any other new littles feeling a little lost (pun intended)

 

[princessfreckles]

Definitely join a group and really talk to people who have more experience. I'm in a sfw kik group and I've learned a lot from fellow littles and caregivers. Not to mention here, I've asked questions I have, and there are a lot of fantastic people eager to share their experience with the lifestyle. Definitely ask any questions that you have!

[daddyslittlegirly]

i would say most of it comes in its own time, but don't be scared to try new things. (like new names etc.) you also need  know this is 150% what you want to do. i know this kind of dumb but if your both not having fun then the fun wont last long.

[cuppycakes]

CG/l is entirely what you make it, as there isn’t any right or wrong way to do anything. I think you could get some more in depth answers if you specify what you’re looking to learn also take a look around the Resources section, as there’s some great stuff in there to help you get started.

[Guest pacibrat]

It does feel that way at first.  You're not alone in that.  My best advice is don't stress and have FUN getting to know little you! Some littles feel a certain age and others don't.  Some people aren't littles at all, but they are middles (I'd say 12 and into the teens, but I'm just guessing the age range).  I'm a little who is 3 (a lot of people give a range like 3 to 5). I like pacis, but am not into diapers.  I love stuffies and blankies, candy, little snacks and coloring and cute stuffs and pink. I want a bottle, but I will save that for when I have a Daddy and we can be together in person.  That's me and it's just an example for you. You might like completely different things.  There is no right or wrong way to be a little.

 

I do want to say that in the beginning, I didn't know I liked what I like.  An adult paci was completely foreign to me.  Even when I had a Daddy (I've only had one), I didn't know about pacis and stuff (wasn't exposed to the community).  I started learning about little stuff on Instagram and then I found this site.  This site is wonderful for littles and carergivers!  At first I thought it was just mostly used for the personals section, but it isn't.   My point is that there's a lot of good information here if you take the time to look around.